Was my guy friend trying to see me naked?

Question

I've been staying at my friend's appartment for a bit while my family's house is gassed for bugs. Anyway like the second day in I hadn't taken a shower yet and I wanted to so I asked him. But he said that he had to take a shower too for a meeting and that that there was so little hot water usually that unless I wanted to shower with him, I'd have to take a cold one after he did.

He said that in a joking way but I wondered if he was serious? I couldn't tell. Who would shower with a guy friend who you weren't dating.

Btw I ended up taking a quick cold shower. If u need to know to help me figure this out, he's 18 and I'm 17.

Answer 1

As long as you don't have s*x I think it's ok.  

Answer 2

i think it was kinda like a safe way of him saying that he wants to see you naked.  its actually kinda flirty

Answer 3

yes he did but if u are both confortable around each other, it could of been a laugh

Answer 4

Of course he wanted to see you naked. So do I and most other people.

It's a shame we live in the kind of society when we can't just come out and say things like that. Instead, people revert to abusing positions of power (such as the one your friend has over you in your current predicament), guilt, sneakiness and other unprincipled methods to express their real desires.

Anyway, it's no big deal. People shower together all the time. Ever been to a gym? I know I would do it if it was a question of hot or cold water. You may not want to let your family or friends know about it if they are prudish though.  

Answer 5

  The guy has to try.