Was she cheating????

Question

So we broke up... I got mad and started snappin cause in the end she was being real shady and distant which led me to believe maybe she was havin s*x with her kids dad. So weeks later I contact him via myspace and tell him all this stuff... and its like he doesnt care WHAt she does and tells me im not the first or last person to come at him with things (mainly boy drama). She was older then me and I pimpted her out hard and had s*x wit her tons of times. Then she juss stoped cold turkey for 1 week and then 2 weeks later we break up. Is it normal to be havin s*x all the time then stop and then she breaks up? what does that usually mean? and also I am wondering.... I remember looking at her myspace 2 1/2 months later and her mood said LOVED and I got pissed cause that 2 me meant she got back wit the kids dad.

She then deleted her profile after I talked smack to her on the phone...She wouldnt talk to me she would only respond to texts but she would ALWAYS respond. Then I got mad again after I heard the night I met her which was a week before we started dating that she had s*x wit a guy I know who is also her ex boyfriend. Do I assume she left me for someoneelse? I know reguardless its a good thing... but what does a guy assume from this??? she was 100% honest wit me durring the relationship but after we broke up she started lyin 2 me...

im pretty sure I gave her every reason by contacitn gthe kids dad for her to not wanna talk to me ever agin... but why would she keep responding to my texts until I gave up and why wouold she goto a party I was at and then leave knowing I would prolly be their???

Answer 1

Perhaps you should take a Writer's Craft course. And then ask "her".

Answer 2

"Singles & Dating".

I've no patience for these rants.  They don't belong.

Answer 3

sounds like you have growing up to do, first of all you shouldn't have "pimpted" her out and you shouldn't be worried about how much s*x your having if thats what you miss instead of her company does it matter if she was banging some other dudes go fid some other chick if your just lookin to smash  also sounds like you where on top of her alot i think your on some kid stuff if she dont wanna be with you whats it matter why your deaded now move on let her be with her kids dad and have a family

Answer 4

I like how the women who are telling this guy off are the same ones who would be spouting self righteous c**p if the genders were reversed.

she was definitely cheating, she didn't care about your feelings bro.

No wonder he's pissed guys, give em a break.

Always the dude's fault in any relationship situation i guess......

Answer 5

maybe you just rnt man nuff for her, be a real man and then she wont go somewhere else IMHO

Answer 6

So she's older? Because you are obviously younger.

Getting mad and trying to get even by calling her ex isn't cool. You guys broke up, and it's no longer your business what she is doing. She doesn't owe you an explanation for her actions because you aren't together.

Why do you care what happens after the fact? You talk mean to her and then call her ex? What do you expect to get out of being this way to her? Because continuing what you are doing now could land you with a restraining order. You seem a little obsessed with someone you aren't with. You may never get the answers you want, but you gotta leave her alone and move on.

Answer 7

How on earth would anyone here have any idea what the motivations of this woman, or her ex-partner are?

We understand that YOUR motivations are all confined to the 'underwear' area, and that your ability to communicate leaves a lot to be desired but seriously, what was she thinking and was she cheating?

No idea, unless she was thinking that maybe you were someone with basic respect and decency instead of a maniacal s3x monkey whose main interest was getting l@id and talking badly about the person who was giving it to you; or that you were going to be enough to satisfy her.

Guess she was wrong.

Cheers :-)

Answer 8

Magic 8-ball says:

"Maybe".

Answer 9

Just answe the mans question was she cheating or no??????????

Answer 10

Whether she cheated or not, I would suggest taking a deep breath and walking away.  This amount of drama never ends with a "happily ever after".  Not that you are looking to be happy with this kind of craziness.  It sounds like you are just looking for another reason to be irritated so you can continue the drama.

And let me just say, that is no way to live.  Dude, Man Up, walk away and get yourself together.  Quit trying to "pimpt" anyone out and develop some character.  Be a man.

I'm just saying...

Answer 11

no she wasn't cheating on you she doesn't want to be with you anymore so just move on

Answer 12

"She then deleted her profile after I talked smack to her on the phone"

"She was older then me and I pimpted her out hard"

WTF???????

"Then I got mad again after I heard the night I met her which was a week before we started dating that she had s*x wit a guy I know who is also her ex boyfriend".

What business is it of yours that she had s*x with her ex-boyfriends, BEFORE you even met? You want her to tell you about every sexual encounter she's ever had? Ever heard of privacy?

No wonder she left you! You have no respect for her!

"I'm pretty sure I gave her every reason by contacitn gthe kids dad for her to not wanna talk to me ever agin"

You'd better believe it!

Answer 13

"I pimpted her out hard and had s*x wit her tons of times."

Is PIMPTED a word?

To answer your question:  yes, she was cheating on you, so what?

Were you faithful to her, though?  I'm guessing you weren't.  You're just mad because she beat you at your own game.  You met an older woman you couldn't handle.  Get over it!  Grow up!  Stick with some English courses...just a thought.