My g/f broke up with me recently and I am a complete mess. but i sat down and wrote down alll the pros and cons . What do you think?
Her Pros : She was beautiful, i was her first boyfriend, same culture not religion. spoke same cultural language/
Her cons : she recently said im not attractive , she she had no respect for my parents, she gets these "fits" of rage where she lashes out verbally at me , often makes me feel bad and quickly comes back and apoligizes . broke up 5 times in 2 years , didnt let me watch movies or got mad when i saw movies because the movies had actresses . the future ie marriage was a bit clouded by the religion diffrences . was always jelous if i got an award, if i got somethign she didnt , one time she ripped up my award because i got it and she didnt . she liked my best friend once and broke up with me because of that . always paranoid , doesnt like romance/being romanitc/intimacy shell be intamate once in a blue moon when she wants to once every 2 months , etc said how i looked ugly with my teeth , or needs muscles like other guys , it was perfectly fine for her (according to her) to check out other guys but not for me , didnt trust me with girls for some reason. If i talked to a girl on facebook shed flip out thinking there was an affair. Never showed any appreciation for what i did for her or what i got for example i did her essay once because she was really tired and she didn't get what she expected to get on it , she lashed out on me verablly and phyiscally saying how i just want to make her fail. If i got her rings or earings or clothes shed say either oo these are nice and never ever wear them and leave them in her locker and throw them out eventully saying oops:( sorry . or say oo these are nice but i like hte other ones not these oness. said ugly unimagible things about my mom frequently for no reason (she was jelous because her mom treated her badly all the time and mine was sweet to her) , once tried to set up some guys to beat me up but then relized she was wrong,
Ahh after all these cons when she use to do them i always thought she changed when she either apolgized or came and hug me tightly and i always forgave her, i know i was wrong i took all this for her immaturity, but what do you guys think
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