Was this his fault or mine?

Question

Okay, I texted this guy whom i've known and have been messing with. he drove over and was parked in front of my home, i told him that i was on the phone, he drive back home.

I texted him the next night, he responded i asked him to come over, he aske if I wanted him over now,,,,i said okay...but didn't hear from him....you think he was trying to get back at me??

was it my fault

Answer 1

I don,t know . Is he on call?

Answer 2

sounds weird to me, tell him to get serious and you get serious too.

Answer 3

This guy comes over to your house to see you and you tell him your phone call is more important then seeing him. Then when YOU decide you are ready to see him, you tell him to come over. Does it really surprise you that he stood you up after the way you treated him? He's saying, "how does it feel?"

When you ask him why he didn't show up, he'll probably tell you that something more important came up.  

Answer 4

Maybe you would know if you had actually heard his voice! Why all the texting?? Don't you want to talk to him?

Answer 5

You both sound immature to me.  It's difficult to say who is at fault in this situation.  He was probably a bit huffy to have left because you were on the phone, unless you left him hanging for an unreasonable amount of time.  If you didn't and he drove off anyway, you were silly to contact him again and set yourself up for something like that to happen.  I wouldn't have anything more to do with someone who just drove off like a jerk.