Was this love i want to knw did he love me tel me wht u think everybody told he loved me bt never confess?

Question

Mital my senior a very good badminton player,i met him in th court.i never speak to him much.i didnt have his no. nor did he have mine.one day in th practical lab he was thre n ask for my mobile no. i gave him without askig nything or asking his i was not so interested to knw him(i thght).we never spoke.diwali he cal to ask for some studies related n wished diwali.thn i asked was tht his no. tht how i got his no. after few time he send me a romantic mesg i replied thght my freindz freind so i shld reply.we mesg each other for sme time then he stop mesgng.later one day 4 mesg frm him i didnt think much n replied him.we never spoke or even glance each other atleast i didnt.i got bored n didnt mesg him.he use to nt reply wen i use to text mesg him about personal ques.

i started liking him(mital) n mesging him.mital use to wish me festivals one night before even 15th august.

he mesg his new no. one day before he changed his number.

but we nevr spoke i thought i was wrong not to notice his feeling.i went to play badminton with him in th evening.but never spoke much.one day my freind confess him n told i like him .i called him(mital) he didnt reply. i didnt ask or explain nything to him.aftr few days my frnd told atleast tel mital wht was going on.i told my freind to tel mital to wait after th practice with him.mital told my freind to go so tht he can talk to me in private.my freind told tht he wont leave n mital left telling my freind tht he was tired!

i felt insulted atleast he volud have waited for 20 min for me or called me after tht

i am confuse i loved him or not?

did we love each othr

Answer 1

NO

Answer 2

i think he is just fooling around and dont think of him again.

If he likes you he will come back for sure and then you could weigh and decide

Answer 3

No, you are mistaken you are not in love  

Answer 4

this is called Infatuation... (mere attraction). nothing else.

If it was Love, everything shud have been crystal clear in your mind. You dont ask questions then...  

Answer 5

No, it is just little infuation.So,don't get upset and carry on your normal friendship.Texting love like msg is just for fun nowadays...and if you feel very strongly for him,then just instead of using any mediater,you must tell him abt your love for him without fail,so that even if the response is negative,atleast you will out of confusion and be friends, if you both are comfortable.Why waiting for a answer without questioning....Life ke funde should be.."Be clear and be in peace otherwise confusion creates havoc "

Go ahead,clear your doubts. Remember if you are struck in middle of the staircase,then its better to climb up or step down,no piont standing there .Best of Luck.

Answer 6

you are correct its just confussion nothing else.

Its not love. if its love your not here to ask this question coz love never leaves the doubts behind.

You have been meeting each other daily in the court or you/he enjoy playing with other. Except its just nothing.

He/you never come directly to say that you like and love makes you brave to prapose directly. so its clear.

Last thing to ask you ...

Did you ever feel alone without him????

Did you ever feel "its killing" ???

did you ever had thoughts of him and NOTHING except.????

Answer 7

It sounds as there is great confusion about each others intentions

.if your friend reallycares,wait until he calls you again.If you keep calling or trying to find out, it may seem like your pushing to hard.put the next move to him