Was this right of me to do?

Question

first week of school. today i walked in the lunch room and i saw my friend ashley. this is what happened:

Me: "hey how are you, man I'm so sad i dont know anyone in here i dont know were to sit. do you think i can sit with you and your friends, is ther room for me?

(thinking she might invite me to her table to sit)

ashley: welll....umm.... i dont know. (someone yells out ASHLEY!)

ashely: well i got to go

Me: wait! can i come?

ashley left me there. so i was stared at going through the lunch room alone. i sat by myself. i was soo mad. so i saw her again in the hall:

me: ASHLEY!

ashley: yeah?

Me: last year i knew you didnt have friends and you didnt know anyone in gym, so i came by you and was with you and i was your friend through the whole year, so you didnt feel alone. now look what you did to me. your ignorant and rude.

ashley: well i didnt know, godd.

and walked away gossiping about me already.

WHAT SHOULD I DO WAS THAT RIGHT OF ME??

Answer 1

uhm well it was good that you told her how you felt i think it was the right thing to do she just blew it out of proportion and made a big deal out of it

forget her and make new friends dont worry you will find some everybody does

Answer 2

SHe was wrong to gossip about you. That proved she is unworthy of you ateentions.

Answer 3

You were absolutely right. You felt betrayed and you tactfully approached her and addressed the issue. Now that you know Ashley's true colors, move on and find new friends that will appreciate your actions.

Answer 4

SOUNDS LIKE ASHLEY IS A ******!!!!!!!

Answer 5

good on you.

That's SO sad.

She sounds really stubborn .

my best friend was like that people kept telling me not to stick up for her because she wont do it for me.

Well i soon found that one out.

Leave her there.

find new friends  x

Anybody is better than her x

Good Luck

x

Answer 6

Drop her!!  You now know you can't expect anything good from her.  So you will need to find a new friend.  I know it is hard.  Maybe join a club that interests you -- drama or something.  It is a great way to meet people.

Answer 7

h**l yes it was perfectly reasonable for you to do that. I've had that problem but the only difference was that I was the ignorant one.. so i can pretty much tell you in her point of view. She got overwhelmed that she had new friends and now thinks differently and most likely has a new attitude.  She'll learn soon that what she did was super fake and she'll probably regret it.  Don't worry about her.  You sound straight up and simple and you'll have no problems getting true people as friends with the personality you have.  Not saying to do this, but just suggestions okay.. you shouldn't give her the time of the day since she screwed you over like that.. it sounds as if you took this pretty personal so you should just let her be and just don't pay as much attention to her.  And the gossiping?! Please, that's gonna give her a down in her new reputation. Just don't worry about her.. You're cool :D

Answer 8

never stoop to their level rude is always unacceptable, plus the first time you are successful at "kill em with kindness" you'll never get even any other way when some rude fool calls you to say how wrong they were imaginge the pride youll feel when they appologize to you for their actions

Answer 9

I think it is good you brought the issue up.  Ashley is not a true fried.  Be yourself and I am sure you will find some good friends.  Good Luck!