Was this too straightforward?

Question

This guy basically never called or texted me about this party he invited me to a week ago but when he finally did saying he's sry and stuff. I texted back "Way to txt me a week later >=O" and he apologizes again in his next text and I txt him exactly saying I am mad, etc. Do guys not like to hear that from a girl? I didnt make it sound really mean or harsh, did I? I mean, he was THE one who didnt txt me in the first place. So is that a turn off for guys? cuz my friend (girl) was wide-eyed when I told her...

and I'm a humorous type of girl so I when I sent it, it wasnt anything serious. more like sarcasim

Answer 1

you shouldn't care whether it bothers him or not...if he wasn't an a*****e he would have written to you in the first place...

Answer 2

i hate hearing that cause if i was diggin you i would of texted you and been on it  

Answer 3

Sarcasm doesn't work very well in texts. It usually just comes off as sounding rude. It's a difficult art to master.  

Answer 4

I think you just sounded to pushy. let him pursue you  

Answer 5

whoa.

u shouldve wrote "haha" or "jk" or anything to lightn the tone.

u probly freaked him out a little.

Answer 6

Telling him you are mad when you aren't and he's already apologised isn't a great way to encourage his attentions. You ought to hold out on that type of negative humour until he knows you well enough to know you were kidding. It sounds like you are playing games with him, and I've never met any guy who's appreciated that.

Answer 7

I think it was fair response, after all you did "O" that day - because he stood you up, so, your response was just an honest answer.

He got what he deserved! Maybe next time he invites someone he'll think about the way he treated you and do much better.

After all, what exactly did he expect - hugs and kisses?!

Idiots like him are ... idiots!

Answer 8

no, it's ok

Answer 9

No it's not too harsh. Sound's like something i'd say too haha.

Answer 10

Sarcasm doesn't transfer well via email or text.  don't try it or do it anymore.  He said sorry twice - that was great of him.  I suppse he may have thought you were a ***** and there was no pleasing you because you couldn't let it go after the 2nd apology.  No offense, just saying...

Answer 11

Just text him back if you're worried and tell him you were definitely kidding. I mean some guys get that humor, but it really depends.