Was this wrong of me?

Question

This girl asked me for her phone number in front of all my friends. She wasn't ugly looking or anything, she even looked kind of cute, but my friends just started making fun of her and were like uugh and stuff and I didn't step in or do anything, and she just ran off. I feel really bad and stuff but I haven't seen her to apologize or anything. I'm a junior in high school.

Answer 1

Yeah it was wrong of you.

She was embarrassed, probably hurt, offended, ugh.

You should have stepped in, she asked for YOUR number, not your so called friends opinion.

You need to apologize, and not just an I'm sorry, but really talk to her and apologize.

Don't ever do this again. If you like her, that's your decision. Not your friends.

-c.

Answer 2

i think it was i'm srry i'm not trying to be mean or anything but idk i think maybe u think what ur friends think mean more than wat u think so just do wat u would do and ignore them... be ur own person and apologize to the girl

Answer 3

i know its tough in front of your friends sometimes, but you can stick up for people without your friends laughing at you.

if they laugh at you then they obviously aren't very mature and if they have girlfriends - they cant take themselves very seriously.

you seem like a nice guy because you feel bad, but next time, just picture yourself in her position.

it took guts for her to come over to you in the first place, surrounded by your friends.

so just next time, bare it in mind!

hope this helps

Answer 4

I wouldnt really say you did anything wrong but you could have said something to your friends like Shut up or Cool it ya know?  Why let someone hurt someone elses feelings?  She wasnt trying to get to know them- she wanted to know you.  BUT it seems like u r a good person because this is bothering you.  When u see her the next time just apologize for your idiot friends!  Your not a bad person because of your friends!

Answer 5

Ok look i'm a sophmore and I know how this girl feels...if you know anything about her i would find her and apologize. but if not i would ditch your friends cause if they are junior they are way to immature. i dont mean to be rude but dont be stupid!

Answer 6

I understand how the girl feels. You should find her and tell her your sorry...try to make it up to her. Your friends sound mean!

Answer 7

pretty shallow. i dont wanna see why she would wanna date somebody like you who would make her run off crying

Answer 8

Ditch those guys and get a new crew. You should have taken up for her though.

Answer 9

That is really sad.  It is so hard to get the courage to approach someone you are interested in.  I hope she finds someone who is willing to stick up for her in front of his friends.  Why would she be interested in you anymore anyways, if she is going to have to deal with your dumb friends making fun of her all the time?

Answer 10

i would just like yell at ur friends a lil. and then go up 2 her and sit her down and really talk to her and apologize. then u should give her ur number since u didnt get 2 be4. hope this will help u!!

Answer 11

There's not really anything you can do now, except find her and talk to her about it. If you do talk to her, you can get to know her, and maybe discover she's an awesome girl. You never know. My advice for the future is just to always be friendly with them.

Answer 12

ask your friends to help you look for her then you all should apologize

Answer 13

you want my honest answer...

yeah it was really wrong. unfortunetly....thats something that girl will never forget i guarantee it..she'll remember that for the rest of her life and that memory will always hurt more each time. you pretty much unintetionally scared her for life...

in the future...ignore your friends..be a rold model to them and stand up for her becuase as soon as you protect a girl like that you gain instant respect from everyone...just keep that in mind in the future.

Answer 14

You should make your friends apologize too.

Answer 15

Apologize. Seriously. That girl worked up a lot of nerve to ask you for her number, and if you show no support, she immediately thinks that she's an idiot for even liking you.

If you like this girl, just ask her out later. Explain the whole peer pressure thing, and if she forgives you, you two might just be the happy couple.

If your friends really are your friends, then they'll support your decision.

Answer 16

Don't let your friends run your life Junior or not be a man and stick up for what you know is right. Do you want to be a leader or follower. Successful people make things happen not let things happen to them Apologize find her and take her out if you'd like. If they're really your friends tell them what's up and stop the abuse from them who needs that Are you going to spend your life letting your friends dictate to you who you see or don't. She could be a great girl and who knows maybe just right for you Don't shut her out. If your interested because you never said you had a girlfriend your Friends aren't going to do the nasty with you Are they?

Answer 17

Find her apologize to her and give her your number.

Answer 18

find her give her ur number and ditch ur dumbasses I mean friends

Answer 19

I think you were wrong, I think you do too or you wouldn't be asking the question.  Your friends were definitely wrong.  They had no right to tease her that way, and you should tell them so, and if you think she's cute you should tell her so.  Go give her your number.  Talk to her who knows the two of you might hit it off.

Answer 20

yeah it was wrong of you your friends shouldnt have any say in who you talk to or who you give your number too

Answer 21

ummm   well maybe  u can fugure her number out somehow and call her and tell her

that is just so mean   i saw that happen to a girl before  but the guy was laughin too

im the one who followed her  and calmed her down     and now were really good friends

guys r a$$holes

and ur not so good urself   u should of told ur friends to  shut up  in front of her  

i call boys  problems

but i still love them lol

if u see her at school

talk to her     and say u were shocked and didnt kno wat to say

and talk to ur friends "idiots"

goodluck

Answer 22

Your friends are jerks<--and i cant stress that part enough.Wether you like her or not you owe her an apology.

Send her some flowers or something

Answer 23

it wasnt really wrong of you, but it wasnt right of you either.

and your friends suck.

Answer 24

just apologize just be like 'sorry my friends were being *****. but dont let them reflect who i am. even though we are buds, we are totally different. but theyve been my friends for a really long time, ill tell them to be nice next time' or something like that.

Answer 25

apologize for your friends. thats kinda outta order i bet she needed to pluck up loads of courage to do that and that probably shattered it. give her your number ;)

Answer 26

Im sure you know the answer to this already.

Especially from what everyone else is saying.

Apologize immediately.

Girls are really sensitive to stuff like that; as anyone would be.

No joke, you can emotionally scar someone very easily by doing something stupid like that.

So, apologize. Make your friends apologize, and if they don't it can be understandable. It could be an awkward situation for your friends to admit they were stupid. So keep her and your friends seperate.

It took a lot of courage for her to ask you in front of your friends.

A LOT!!

Do the right thing....

Answer 27

This case seems very similar to what i and what i'm sure many guys have experienced throughout their time in school. Your friends were taking the p**s out of you to make you feel embarassed and so they have something to laugh at (i mean this in that you're friends aren't trying to be mean but are just looking for entertainment). This girl obviously felt hurt because of what your friends said, you must find this girl and firstly apologise for what they said. That they didn't mean it and they are basically idiots. Try to make a joke of it, make her feel comfortable about it and that she has nothing to worry about. Next say you were sorry for not saying anything there and then. That you were caught up in the moment and were basically speechless as to the behavious of your friends (wooo how posh does that sound hehe). Finally say something like 'so, is that offer for your number off of the table or are you still going to deprive me of having such a gorgeous girls nimber' or something along those lines, your a guy i'm sure you'll think up something haha. So basically put her at ease and apologise for everything that happened.

I am torn on whether to say make sure she's on her own or with her friends but i'll leave that for you to decide on the day because if her friends are there it could be a daughnting task. With her being on her own then your at ease and relaxed and if your like that then you will influence how she feels and so therefore she will be at ease and relaxed.

Hope this helps  

Answer 28

for me,

i would just smacc the h**l outta yo' friends in front of you,because of their stupidity.

dont worry you sound like a cool kid,so i wouldn't slap you!

Answer 29

thats really messed up.

you should have sticked up for her

MAKE SURE YOU SAY YOUR SORRY

that girl could be crying herself to sleep at night .

belive it or not.. us girls take what you guys say for granted.

Answer 30

THATS HORRIBLE

ARE YOU CRAZY MAN

apologize now.

youre welcome

Answer 31

that was pretty bad dude

she ran off crying, thats terrible

go to her and apologize for having jackass friends