Was what I did right?

Question

okay last year this girl moved to my school. To make a long story short. We eventually started talking and I thought we were going to be good friends. But then she became really popular. Ever since we've never talked. I used to always text her and check up on her. But she didn't seem so interested inbeing my friend after she found out who she was and becme popular. When I needed someone to talk to sometimes she sometimes wouldn't answer my calls and texts. She also never texted me first. But anyways I felt like I was always there for her and I was being a nice friend to her but it seemed like she still wasn't interested. And then she named all of her friends on a list and I wasn't on there. But now she recently got in trouble with something. And she needs all her friends to help her. But I decided not to do anything because I would seem desperate. It also wouldn't make sense because she doesn't even talk to me. We don't talk anymore. It was a waste of my time. I also want to realize I was a real and true friend. Hopefully she notices. Do you think what I did was right? Also will she eventually realize I was a true friend? thanks for your answers.

Answer 1

Yes, I think that what you did is right.  But don't get hung up on being someone's friend if they don't want to be yours.  I believe that you should always treat her with respect, but if she won't talk.... don't push it.  You can spend your time looking for REAL friends.

Answer 2

Yeah, you definitely did the right thing, if she really was your friend, so wouldn't forget you, I never leave my friends out in the dark, even if we rarely see each other, I always acknowledge them. You did the right thing by leaving her. I don't know if she'll realize that you were a true friend because most of the girls(the type you described her as being) who are popular tend to be superficial, and thus forget things like real friends. But if she does realize it, let her work and show that she wants to be a true friend of yours, don't just accept her back.  

Answer 3

def. right

u did great

u were a nice friend and she wanted to use u when she was bored.

let her be popular and end up with no friends.

hope i helped

~tay

Answer 4

That girl is fake. She let her "popularity" get the best of her what you did was perfectly fine. She will come around when something bad happens to her and people start turning on her, and she will need somebody there to pick her back up, and I hope you stand your ground and dont let her walk over you. You did more then alot of people would have done and thats makes you a very good person. So dont let the those kind of people bring you down.  

Answer 5

Wat u did was right. She could've been more open minded with her friends.

Answer 6

You acted well, you intentions where good and your feelings where true. Too bad she let it all get to her head. Someday she will be in great need of a true and will find her self alone and will realize that the only true friend she was you. I just hope that when that times you lend her your hand, cause you are nice girl. Some day you are going to find a great bf that is goign to make you really happy and you will be the envy of every gilr.