Wat do i do to get poplular?

Question

ok so im kinda cool but not popular

Answer 1

i dont know anything u can do to get populat

Answer 2

If you are in high school or college run for some office, make posters with your picture on them and this gets you visable to more people.

Get in with a school group, student council, cheerleaders, sports, art, student newsletter;

make friends there to see what it leads to.

Answer 3

be funny but dont try too hard mix with the right people and dont be afraid to do things like maths club. be yourself and be honest act like you dont care whatpeople think and try to contribute to convo. i usaly get by on being funny but i like to think that i am my own person. having material goods helps too

Answer 4

you shouldn't make major changes in your life just to be popular. I used to make clubs. Once word gets out you have a club or a "posse" everybody will want to be a part of it except for any snobs. but it is >MORE< effective if your in elementary to junior high.

Answer 5

Break out the lotion

Answer 6

You don't.

Answer 7

I know there is a lot of pressure to become popular.  But it won't serve you very well if you do it through superficial means only.  Do the cool stuff that you like, wear the cool stuff that you like.  Don't blindly follow the crowd though.  You gotta be a little creative & add your own personal flair that doesn't color too far outside the lines.

OK - that was the superficial stuff.  The best thing you can do is be a good person.  Have integrity and good values.  When you are there for your freinds, just listen without judging, be sympathetic and understanding without telling them what to do.  They can figure things out.  Most people want someone to listen to them (I guess I didn't do that too well in the first paragraph :-).  If your freinds press you to tell them what to do, say "Gee, that's a tough one, I need a few days to think about it so I can give you good advice."  Then after a few days, go up to them and tell them, "I've thought about what you asked me and it really tough, I just don't know what I would do in your shoes, lets talk some more.  What else have you thought about it?"

Next - work hard in school.  You have to learn as much as you can about the world and life to know what is right in your environment.  Since they are teaching you for free (I mean you don't pay for it even if your parents are sending you to a private school) you might as well take as much advantage of it as you can.

Trust me on this, most of the famous people, Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Will Smith, P Diddy, worked very hard in and out of school.  A lot of them would tell you they were geeks and not very popular in school.  That was becasue the persued their interests with passion and focus.

Good luck and try not to worry what others think of you.  Bekieve it or not your parents can help too if you talk to them.  Try this: ask them how to become a good listener.  That will force them to think about how they do it with you.

Peace