Wat if you found out that your 4 months pregnant?

Question

i'm not but my best friend christine is.she don't know if to throw away the baby or wat to do so if anyone can answer my ?it would be appreciated.

Answer 1

How stupid can you and your friend possibly be??? Seriously throw away a baby!!! It's a human life not a toy. If it took her this long to figure out than clearly she's not paying attention which is her own fault. Find an adoption agency a lot of states won't allow termination after the first trimester.  

Answer 2

People, do you not see that this is why we need to bring back chasity belts? Kids are getting pregnant and talking about "throwing away" the baby!!!!

If you're big enough to have s*x, you'd better be big enough to accept the consequences. Take responsibility for your actions! An innocent human life doesn't deserve to be "thrown away" just because a little girl thought she was big enough to spread her legs.

Good grief.

Answer 3

You dont throw away a baby... they aren't garbage... not only that but in my state it is illegal to get an abortion after 8 weeks and if she is 4 months thats about 12 weeks i hope it is illegal in your state too. she need to just look into open adoption and fine some who will love that baby. there are so many people out there who would do anything to have a baby...

Answer 4

She needs to see a doctor right away, to make sure she and the baby are healthy.  She should probably also get some counselling to discuss her choices at this point.  She also needs to stop any drinking or drug use immediately.

Answer 5

Yeah, tell her to throw it away so the cops can come and arrest her @ss.

Answer 6

The answer is no. If you aren't up to take care of your actions, don't have s*x. you just can't lay down with someone and if you get pregnant decide that you want to "throw" it away, it doesn't work like that. i got pregnant at 15 and now im pregnant again at 20, it was my choice to make them both, so its my responsablity to take care of them both and she should do the same thing.

Answer 7

Well for one you dont "throw away" a baby you have a baby terminated which at 4 months would be absoloutly terrible!!...At 4 months the baby is so formed and is classed as a human and moves around...If i was her i would keep the baby!!

THIS IS AT 4 MONTHS:

Your baby is now about the size of an avocado (about 5 inches / 11.6 centimetres long from crown to rump and weighing approximately 4 ounces / 100 grams). In the next three weeks he'll go through a tremendous growth spurt, doubling his weight and adding inches to his length.

In or out of the womb, babies are playful creatures. Yours may already have discovered his first toy -- the umbilical cord -- which he'll enjoy pulling and grabbing. Sometimes he may even clutch it so tight that less oxygen gets through, but don't worry -- he doesn't hold onto it long enough to harm himself. The circulatory system and urinary tract are in full working order, and he's inhaling and exhaling amniotic fluid through his lungs.  

Answer 8

THROW WAY THE BABY? How stupid are you ppl seriously how are you goin to throw away your baby its to late for adortion so if she didnt want a baby why didnt she use pretection common sense right...Hey to late for that she needs to get soemone thats whats to adopt the baby there so many familys out there that are willing to take any baby and not be stupid and THROW WAY her baby contact someone there is plenty out there  

Answer 9

Throw the baby away??? Grow up.

Answer 10

Seriously when do you kids start back to school? Tell her not to do anything that is going to end up on the nightly news (like throw away the baby). She decided to be a big girl and have s*x so she needs to be a big girl and do right by the baby by growing up and taking care of he/she or giving the baby up for adoption.  

Answer 11

Mate, of your friend is considering THROWING (which i hope was not meant literally) her baby away, you need to call child services. Babies should not have babies! Tell her to try using contraception next time.

Answer 12

She'll be starting to show and should talk to a counselor if she can't talk to her parents. if she is incapable of caring for a baby it would be wise to line up an agency in advance so the baby has a loving home and she gets prenatal care

Answer 13

a baby is not a toy it will change her a life and maybe for the better a baby is a gift from God, that baby didn't ask to came to this world she should n ow face the responsibilities of being a mum which is the most amazing experience.

Imagine how many people would like to have a child but they can't she should keep the baby and give him the best life prospects that she can.

  

Answer 14

Throw the baby away?!! This is a human life we're talking about here, not a piece of rubbish!

If she's 4 months pregnant is a little late for an ABORTION now. Does your friend know that she can talk to her GP / Midwife about her situation. Get her to talk to the babys father - will he support her? Will her family support her? These are all things to take into consideration.

If she doesn't want to keep the baby. there are plenty of couples out there who may have been trying for a baby for years and can't have their own, who are desperate to adopt. Get her to look into adoption agencies if she doesn't want to keep her baby, but tell her not to abort.

I felt my baby kick when it was 19 weeks (4 1/2 months). How can you abort something you can feel inside you.

Answer 15

Throw the baby away? are you kidding me!!

IF she dosnt want the baby, its a little late for an abortion so she needs to find and adoption agency to work with..

Answer 16

with the bath water? LOL

Answer 17

well this statement is a little bad "she don't know if to throw away the baby or wat" you can't do that... and she should discuss the situation with her family, If she doesn't want the baby maybe someone in her family will take and raise the child, if no one wants another baby, then she should seriously talk to an adoption agency there are tons of people that can't have their own children that would love to have her child...! Hope it all works out! Good Luck!

Answer 18

what!!! Throw away the baby!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope that is not literal, either way, how can you give up your own baby. There is very few circumstances that I feel you should give up your baby but still how can anyone word it in a way that sounds so horrible, throw away your baby, all I can think of us the people putting their babies in the dumpsters, makes me sick! If you find out your 4 months pregnant you have two choices, 1. Deal w/ it and stop all drugs/drinking/smoking

2. Look into giving it up for adoption- again stop all drugs/drinking/smoking

Abortion- very rarely an option since too far along.  

Answer 19

I feel really bad for your friend However, most places will not give someone an abortion past 12 weeks (3 months). It is not safe for the mother and many physicians find it unethical. Your friend (and you if you want) should go to the doctors and speak with them. It does not sound like she wants to keep it so look into open and closed adoption.