Wat is it lyk having s*x?

Question

i know im 2 young 2 hav s*x...buh i hav been thinking about it...me nd my boyfriend were talking about it....we've been 2 gether since i was 11 nd im 13 now ...hes 14....if i new wat it was lyk then i might consider waiting...other wise i would find ou by myself!

Answer 1

Lol I hope your accidental baby does is not going to inherit brains from you anyway.

Answer 2

wait till ur atleast 16

Answer 3

Jus wait til your a lil older.

Answer 4

Heya

I would wait a little longer. You shouldnt have s*x just because you want to know what it feels like. You need to really love the person and care about them and share a special gift with them. =] x*x

Answer 5

It's overrated, not like you see in the movies, and worth the wait

Answer 6

Its painful for girls the first time and awesome for guys every time.

Anyway, don't do it, because relationships based of it, go down really fast..

Answer 7

bwahhhaaaa!!!!!

lol.  you go ahead and do it honey.

but dont come crying to us saying "WHAT AM I GOING TO DO!!! Im 14 and pregnant, my bf left me, my parents are pissed, i have to drop out and i have no future!!"

think about that before you do it.

yeah.  think.

lol, consider waiting?! you should!! my god, what has the world come to!

Answer 8

Phaha

U seem like a strong person

Answer 9

s*x is bloody brilliant .... some people say its overrated buh they just aint doing it right love ... it is worth the wait ... buh its so good i wuldnt bother waiting .. x

Answer 10

i say dont do it you might regret it i did it and i sure as h**l doo!!

Answer 11

s*x hurts the first few times for girls. wait until you're 16 or 17, you just too young, even 16/17 is young. it only takes one time until you're pregnant and going through horrible labor pain and you have to take care of the baby 90% of the time since your boyfrined either left you or doesn't live with you.

Answer 12

if you do it when you are both ready then it is amazing but if not then you will regret it

Answer 13

well You must wait untill you are at least 18 and if you cant wait unutill then then just finger yourself or use a d***o untill o****m it wont be as good as real s*x but will be very similar

also do it over p**n because you will get a better o****m

Answer 14

i have never had s*x and i am 13. but my 13 year old "friend" (we aren't really friends) has had it. she says at first you bleed but then you get used to it. i think she is saying that it doesn't hurts because she has also been fingered and all of that stuff so yea she is like a s*l*u*t i guess but that is all i know

hope i helped you a little

Answer 15

very over rated it is not like you think you think it will be the best thing ever but it is not atall im 18 and i would b happy not to have s*x anymore lads find its better than girls but that is because they all have just one thing on there mind wether it is just a 1 night stand or you are together for the long run the first thing they think about is s*x so please wait till you get older

Answer 16

it's painful for some people probabley even more as you are so young and overrated it is nothing in which you expect and your first time is always c**p. just wait till you are about 16 as you are probabley not going to be with this boy forever, you aren't missing out on anything and think of if you did do it and realise what it is like and then you will regret it for the rest of your life. when your children ask at what age you lost your virginity and you have to say 13 what does that say. i lost mine at 14 and regret it ever so much but now i cant change the clock and am going to have to tell my children that. it doesnt matter how long you have been with the the longer you wait the better

Answer 17

its **** and it hurts so never do it!!!

Answer 18

...Wait, do you mean what it physically feels like as in orgasms and such or the whole mental emotional side?

   idk, Start masturbating maybe? might give you an idea...

Theres plenty of websites that will give you loads of information. Scarleteen.com is pretty good.

Answer 19

the only girls i have ever seen who don't regret waiting until at least 16 are the bad types who end up on the jerry springer show! (sorry jerry!)

i hate to say it, but that last bit was quite childish. you're more or less saying to people "tell me about it or i'll do it anyway" like we're some sort of parent figure. thats not the case hun, we can only tell you our experience on the subject, the waiting or not waiting is something only you can control. one thing though, the more you think about it and learn about it the more you'll want to do it. especially if you're being told not to. because unfortunately thats just part of being 13 and rebellious.

so the real question becomes....once you've learnt about it, are you going to be grown up enough to wait until your really ready, or are you going to go find out by yourself because a bunch of strangers on a forum didn't give you loads of information and told you to wait?

whatever you do, respect yourself and protect yourself.

Answer 20

try it and see............ the first time i hurts and after that it feels really good

Answer 21

Different for every person.

Answer 22

trust me wait till your 16 it will be more special and if your still with him which im sure you will be you know its meant to be and its not just a thing that happened an oh well we must get over it its a nice feeling knowing that you waited and with him you shared a intemate moment its worth the wait . you cant really explain it its just a feeling that cant be explained but remember the more u have it the more your brain wants it. and plz your potection if you do choose t have it !!!

Answer 23

never know until ya try... but wait until your at least 14 or 15.... 18 wood be nice but who knows what will happen to you 2.

Answer 24

I lost mine when I'd just turned 14, he was 15. We'd been together for 18 months then. I hated it, but the more you do it, the more you get used to it. The first few times are anything but good, but I really like it now. Make sure your boyfriend loves you. I made my boyfriend prove it before we did it.

Answer 25

it's painful and overrated. just wait, you aren't missing out on anything

Answer 26

13 is a bit young to be having s*x, you might want to wait a while mabey 15 or 16 till you start thinking about having s*x.

xx

Answer 27

wait till your older, I lost my V when i was 17 and am lad i waitied as when you sleep with someone it changes your relationship and not always for the best! your too young to have s*x physically emosionally and mentally, girls who have s*x at an early age are at risk of higher chances of uterus cancer, my friends got 3rd stage cancer at 21 after having s*x at 14. enjoy being a child! its not going to last for much more, s*x is more than just an act its something special and romantic between two loving people, you wont have the basics for this to build on yet wait till your older.

Answer 28

wait a year or two.make sure you are totally comfortable first off.and the first tiem it will hurt very bad and im sure you will not really enjoy it.but as you keep doing it it starts to feel good.just be sure to use pretection.

Answer 29

Sweetie, you need to wait.  It is honestly not like the movies or TV.  s*x has become a glorified thing in our culture for quick pleasure and no long term consequences, but its just not how it is.  It will most likely hurt you alot the first time if not the first few times.  Giving yourself away so young will only lower your self worth and make you seem cheap and easy to others, not what you want to do.  If you value your relationship with this boy that is another reason to wait.  Too  many times I've seen relationships end after physical intimacy happens, you always think it will make you two stronger and closer but unless you are much older and in a different place in your life it usually does the opposite.  Please be patient, wait as long as you can, you are stronger than you think.