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Watching the woman you love kiss another woman. What is the attraction?

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I asked this in singles and dating and got no answers so will try here. . .

Last night my BF and I went out with some friends ( husband and wife) everyone was getting a bit tipsy, laughing and having a good time. At somepoint there was a couple girls down at the end of the bar kissing and my BF said you two should do that. So the other woman and I ended up kissing ( i had never kissed a girl before) full tongue and the guys had their cell phones out trying to get pictures. The husband said "my camera is really slow take your time. Go slow".

Anyway kissing her did not turn me on but I know it did both her husband and my BF. What I don't understand is if I were to kiss a guy my BF would knock him flat on his back yet us two women kissing both the men completely enjoyed. So what is the difference guys, a kiss is a kiss. Help me understand. . .

BTW we don't swing in any fashion and would not consider having s*x outside our relationship so he is not hoping for a threesome. Neither does the other couple.

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I wish I could give you an explanation but,, It's just AWESOME!
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Ha haa its not just a kiss !! Its two girls kissing . Ha haa i got turned on just reading your story . I guess its something only a man can understand or a L*****n . A woman is the hottest thing on this planet get two together and theres no putting the fire out .

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If it does nothing for you why'd you do it?

In addition it seems that you both married children as the moronic hubby's both whipped out their phones and took pictures.

Maybe you should not only re-evaluate your friends, but perhaps your marriage as well.
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There's nothing wrong with what you did if that's what you're asking. People get drunk, their curiosity gets the better of them, and things happen.

As for your boyfriend and the other woman's husband taking cell phone pictures? They're both a couple of moronic frat boys. And I do mean boys. How pathetic.
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cause it's totally hot... duh
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I don't get it also. But for me, a kiss is still a kiss. I wouldn't like it either way. But for the sake of being fair, i think your BF likes it because it's been his secret fantasy to see two girls kissing each other. And when he said that nothing happened to him when he saw the other girls kiss is just a lie because he doesn't want you to be offended. If it's not a lie, why then did he ask you or tell you to kiss the other girl upon seeing the girls on the next table kiss? It's his sexual fantasy, it's that simple. Nothing wrong with that though, as long as there's no intercourse. But for me, i really don't like it...

Anyways, hope my answer helped rather than cause more problems...

Just be happy and honest with each other... Take care...
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Next time have you BF and another guy Kiss. Then he will know how you feel about kissing another woman.
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he probally likes the 2 girls kissing thing
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You have just been a victim of the influence of the p**n industry coupled with our low moral standard. Men enjoy a L*****n show as it arouses them. However, when it comes to my g/f or wife, no way, no how. You did something that is not YOU and you will live to regret it. Your b/f mind is saturated with the p**n acts and I guarantee you that down the road with a lot of lack of respect for you, you will be introduced to treesome. The whole idea will be to satisfy his curiosity and enjoy the moment at your expense. Last night you were a bit tipsy with drink but tomorrow smoking and more will really put you in the groove and you will find yourself doing the things that you did not dream of doing. If you do not like that route, be firm and tell him never again.
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it has to be a guy thing. I think that was a sick thing to do as well as being asked to do it.
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Because its taboo and he is not threatened by a girl like he would be by seeing you kiss a man;-)
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You should ask this in the psychology section.

Firstly, there is the simple fact that most men do not feal threatend by a girl. You BF would not imagine you cheating on him or leaving you for a girl, because evidently a girl has not as much to offer as him - eg. a p***s. (Thats what he thinks) Also, men love women, and seeing two of them doing it with each other is just 'perfect'

Secondly a lot of men feel turned on by women making out, because they do not really connect women as 'having s*x' with each other. They see themsellves like in a threesome as the only one who actually has a p***s and therefore can have s*x with you.

The other thing is biological. There is a hormone that is excreted which provied the 'turn on' effect (and the change of potassium levels in brain). He most likely has no control over it, however its cause again is psychological.

Obviously this turn on effect when watching some 'L*****n' action is heavily influenced by the p**n industry and general social surroundings.

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i dont have a clue anyone else that has no clue srry dude me no know
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It is called double standards...created by men....
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