Way lack of confidence...?

Question

so there is this guy i really like but me and him have been a little awkward for a while... we hook up but don't do anything else i like him so much. maybe even love him. thats pretty big for me. I have a bit of a reputation and sometimes I think he takes advantage of me but i try not to think about that. I'm scared to text him and like i just can't how do i become more confident around him.

PLEASE don't say things like drop him, stuff like that we have been together before and i know we can find some way to make it work.

Answer 1

Well, I would not say to drop him yet. You need to build it up inside of you and make yourself talk to him. Love is a big word. Don't jump to that yet please. Go to him if you start it he may just jump in and it will be easier that you make it to be. BUT, please do not say things like love just ask him what he is think about you guys or what he might be looking for. Just make it sample. Hack dropping without talking about it and seeing whats in his head would be a hurt you don't need.

Good luck hope this help and you can understand my jumble thoughts    lol

Answer 2

Just imagine how happy you would be if you were with him. HOPEFULLY that will get rid of the uncertainty.

Answer 3

Tell him.

If you're confident enough to hook up and are that brave - than don't worry about telling him - maybe he needs to hear it too, so don't prolong it. Just say you like him and want a relationship.

You can either not do it and guess what happens or do it and see what happens.

And even if you do lose him, remember, there are plenty of other guys who can be better.