We're moving to the city which i'm against and my parents now tell me to move dance schools.what do i do????

Question

me and my sister went to the suburbs for middle school and when she went to high school in the city, i stayed in the suburbs. now im going to the same school and my parents bought a place for us in the city. we've had this house for 12 years. we'll keep this house too but for the most part move out there. now they are stressing me to move dance studios to the city. i only have 2 years left competing in dance and it would be really hard if i moved now. HELP! and i've already told them this but they dont understand how much i love this place and how difficult it would be. they say they'll try to let me stay, but they lie to me ALLLL the time, why should i believe them now when i know their plan is to just make me move?

Answer 1

When we are growing up, i think we have to do what our parents need us to do... if they have to live in the city now, perhaps it's because of finances?  I'm not sure, i'm not there... but they must have their reasons.

I'm sorry you think you will have a lot of difficulty switching dance schools, but maybe you will make some new friends, if you have to switch.

I hope things work out for you, i really do.  You will find that things change in our lives all the time, and will for years to come.  Try to accept it if all else fails....and good luck dancing

Answer 2

Your parents are trying to do what they think is necessary for the family. Right now, all you can see is what they are doing to you.  

Life, for the most part, is hard.

Believe it or not, they are not doing this simply to make you miserable. There are way easier ways to do that than moving the entire household if that is all they are trying to do.

Most likely they are not telling you everything in order not to scare you. It could be they no longer have the money to sustain the lifestyle you are accustomed to. Or it could be that someone has developed a health problem. Maybe there is a chance of greatly improving things for them with this move. Who knows? Regardless, they have the responsibility of making sure everyone in the family is safe and well cared for and all that entails.

You have a responsibility toward them as well. Perhaps you should stop and look at what is going on with all your other family members. Ask them about things and really listen to their answers without thinking about your dancing. Maybe you'll find out what is really going on.

Answer 3

What you're told.  You're a kid, they are your parents.

Answer 4

have you ever though that maybe it's better for you if you move? you have to think about how your future would change and you can't think of it in the way of "oh now they ruined my life, my future is also ruined" who knows you might find a better dance school that you like better, you have to open your eyes, and they're your parents, your a child you have to listen to them, they're wiser than you

Answer 5

move to the city, act like a city person awhile, you might like it.

Answer 6

Things do change in life and you just cant stop it or do anything. Sometimes change is good. Going into the city may even improve your dance skills as for its more competitive and you learn from different people and some people learn from you. I remember going to a small town to play basketball (where I started to play basketball) and going back to Toronto, it was a tough time trying to catch up because they played better cause there is more people with different skill levels (I just practiced to catch up to them). All I have to say is good luck !

Answer 7

i am 14 and have had to move from a small town competetive dance school to a city school, and i found that because it was a bigger school and was taken more seriously they were able  to afford better teachers and i liked it better