We've hated eachother for years but now i think i like him.?

Question

so there is this guy and for a couple of reasons we have hated eachother openly for about 3 years. everyone knows we hate eachother but no one really knows why. we can barely stand to be in the same room with eachother. but im beginning to realize that im not exactly sure why i hate him so much. it was just something i kinda just went along with not really ever thinking about. along with realizing that i dont really hate him i've come to think that i like him ALOT. i used to like him and i think thats when we began to hate eachother but im not sure. i have NO CLUE what to do about this or how to ask him about it. im 99 percent sure he doesnt share the same feelings but i wish there was something i could do so we could be friends at least.

Answer 1

It happens. you would have to bring him first on your good side and then maybe even he may start liking you if he realizes that you are a good person after all. This will require some work on your side. You have to start being nice and friendly to him, offer to help, etc.; however, don't be disappointed if he never shares the same feelings as you. Afterwards there is a reason why you hated him even though you can't remember it now because you are in a cloud but when he does the thing you hate..oh boy you'll remember it right away.

Answer 2

i was in the same place as you. just slowly, day by day not try to act all pissd at him. instead of giving him a dirty look, give  him a smile IN FRONT OF PEOPLE. do little things around here and there and make shure ppl watch cuz then it will spread. then, once you soften up a bit he will too.  

Answer 3

Lool that's normal  u should've seen it comming ! anyway i say go for it !! ( tell him how u fell then what happens happens & eather ways just remember that at least u tried !) so0o0o gd luck :D !!

Answer 4

i had the same situation. sort of. me + the guy hated each other for months, then i realized i like him. i told him, and he doesn't like me back but i am friends with him and we were able to put it all behind us. try to tell him how you feel.