We are having a ladies night out from work at christmas ?

Question

11 of us are going out for a night and staying over in a hotel but one of our workmates isn't " allowed " by her husband...she is 47 and has been married for 27 years...do you think he is wrong to demand that she doesn't come along even tho she wants to

Answer 1

why should i think???

even i will advice you also don't think too much..........

Answer 2

Maybe she really doesn't want to come or can't afford it but she's just using her husband as an excuse. That way, you can't argue with her. It's a trick to use when dealing with a salesperson at a store. "My wife/husband would kill me if I buy that."

Answer 3

Of course he's wrong...he obviously doesn't trust her...

Answer 4

You may see it as wrong but it is between the two of them.

If she really wants to come then she would not let her husband would not demand that she does not come.

Actually more than wrong it is a man being overhearing and childish.

Answer 5

Yeh it is wrong, although some marriages severely lack trust, and they need to sort out these problems.

You need to persuade her to come along and stop letting her husband control her life. he needs to know that when she says she is doing something, she is going to do it and he need to learn how to trust her.