Me & my fiance have always said we never wanted a wedding ceremony. We wanted to save our money for a nice vacation instead. However, just last week he changed his mind. His mother and grandmother want a wedding now and he will not stop demanding we have one. I have never wanted one...I HATE being the center of attention, i HATE pictures and I'm not very close to my family. My parents have agreed to pay for the wedding if we decide to have one.
I don't think it's fair though for him to change his mind last second and decide he wants a ceremony. I also don't think it's fair for my parents to have to pay for a wedding that was put on them last minute and when HE's the only one that wants one
We were supposed to have a courthouse wedding in two weeks...
I'm willing to have one for his family, but I just don't think this is fair at all...
What should I do? Is there a happy medium?
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