We cant be friends??

Question

My best friend Welby used to luv me and i didnt so a couple of dayz passed and i starteed to like him so i went out with him... then we broke up and now we avoid each other plz help me i want to be his friend and i want to be able to talk with him plz help me. ::tear

Answer 1

Why don't you just tell him:

" I know that going out wasn't the best thing for our friendship but do you still want to be friends because I hate everything being all weird between us?"

Answer 2

You can stop avoiding him, but don't go out  of your way to see him. Wait for him to come to you.  Break-ups take awhile to get over, so this may be a while. Hopefully in time he will want to be your friend again.  If not you can always make new friends.

Answer 3

first give him some time to get over you as I am sure he is hurt and disappointed.  Let him know that you want to be his friend more than anything and really miss your best friend.  You have to understand he cared more for you so may not be able to just revert back....the truth is if he still cares a lot for you he may find it painful to be around you.  Hopefully he will be able to get over his hurt and feelings for you and find that friendship you once shared.  Don't give up on him, and whatever you do be sure you don't unintentionally flirt with him as this will put him in an unfair situation.   I remained friends with many of my ex boyfriends, but some cared too  much or were hurt too much to spend time around me when I did not return those feelings.  I hope it works out for you.

Answer 4

talk to him and just say you dont want anything more than to just be friends, and that you made the mistake of going out.