We cant stop fighting? what do i do??

Question

me and my boyfriend are going on seven months together

well...

at first we would have nothing but fun together

but lately

we have been fighting over absolutely EVERYTHING!!!

we fight on the phone

we fight through text

we fight in person

!!!

what is going on?!?

the stupidest things make us fight!

i try to avoid it but

i just dont know how

what do i do?

how do i know if its me?

i do love him

and i want to work this out

Answer 1

Figure out what is the root cause of it and eliminate that issue.  Fighting is a symptom, not a cause.

Answer 2

Take some time away from eachother and realize what you have to lose and what you've been taking for granted and see if you still want to be with him.

Answer 3

Spend some time away from each other. You don't have to break up or see other people... just spend some time away from each other for a while.

Answer 4

  I've made it through my marriage for 16 yrs. by being "understanding".  Do I HAVE to be right?  Do I love her enough to forgive her for the things said in the argument?  No couple will ever completely agree on everything.  That would be too boring and like dating yourself.  It's about being challenged and enjoying their company.  Accepting them for who they are, and not who you want them to be.  

Answer 5

break up.

Answer 6

study relationship skills (google it)

and learn how to make a good relationship.

Answer 7

you two should sit down and have a conversation on why you think your fighting all the time. maybe you both need some space. or something is going on in his life that he isnt telling you.

i hope it works out. =]]

Answer 8

First off

stop typing

like this it's

annoying

Secondly maybe you two just weren't meant to be or maybe not enough communication. Relationships aren't just about having fun you both have to work together.