We have a dance for beginning of school year, then for halloween, then valentines?no one wants todance withme?

Question

these boys are so mean to me, they are mean to cuz when i was little i lost my dad of lung cancer and my mom died giving birth to me, they think its funny...i live with my grandma now and grandpa since they love me..

for the 6th grade dances boys made a joke , trying to torture everyboy to ask me to dance. im so ugly that im bad enuf to be make a joke out of... >>ben is example name

hey ben, ask her out ,ahahahaaaa!dare you too

ben says: nooooo, stop it ,, omg eewwwwwwwwwwww nnnooo!!!

i creid cuz i couldnt beleive i wuz that hated to be dared against...

7th grade> everydance we have a thing where we vote king and queen of dance , i was only voted and won cuz they triedto hook me up with a kewl skaterboy cuz the rules say king and queen has to. i made myself absent that day so the runnerup person has to.

some dances i only made a circle of friends with people and danced.

8th grade, which just started, we are going to have a beginning of the school year dance, on sept 30th, i really dont want to be made fun out of, my last year in middle skool and want to be , not an outcast. no one asked me out EVER and i want to before hightschool, i think im to ugly and i get c's , which make boys hate me . especially skaterboys make fun of me that i dont have parents cuz they died. they found out by my betraying friend said my secret , thats when she was a popular girl now. wat should i do this year, no one wants a wasted year.

Answer 1

Nobody ever asks me to the dance either (not for the same reasons though) I always go with my friends and have a good time. So try going to the dance with one of your friends. Dances are never as fun as people make  them out to be.  

Answer 2

you should tell those insensitive jerks to get a life and if you do like someone you should keep it to yourself until you can find someone who you can trust and know that they understand how they feel... for the meantime I suggest joining the drama club, that always helps not to think about problems. you can join a band or take up an instrument

step one: tell those insensitive jerks to get a life

step two: see a counselor! seriously.

step three:try to join a drama club or take on learning an instrument.....you don't have to get a date to the dances

step four: find some good people to be your friends.......some people who wont care about what you look like or how you dress........i suggest in band class or drama class

step five: don't worry about not having a date, its silly just to go out with someone for the sake of going out with someone

step six: just ignore the insensitive jerks

step seven: let me know how it works out...... oh yeah........ what I usually do at dances is to just dance with my friends at the dance and let all the guys wish that they couldh've asked you out when they see how much fun you're having!