We have to go out secretly! because of my parents?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been going out secretly because my parents and his parents don't like eachother, We go out secretly everyday, Ive never felt this way about anyone ever, And the worst thing is were inlove but its like we shouldnt be! My mum and stepdad keep coming on my computer and asking me if i still talk to my boyfriend he just comes every midnight to my room and then we go out. What if they find out? I really love this man

Answer 1

Don't let your parents problems affect how you feel about someone.Your parents should be mature enough to put their feelings asides for the happiness of their children.

Answer 2

so you are a rebel

and what do you tell your parents - do you lie and say no

however you deal with your parents and misbehave - your children will triple the heartbreak to you

you will reap what you sow

Answer 3

I think you'd be better off just coming clean with your parents and telling them that you're going out with this guy because you will be caught sneaking out sooner or later... and the they'rl be trouble.

You need to explain that just because they dont get on with his parents has nothing to do with you.

xx

Answer 4

you guys are in a tough condition. tell your parents about the intensity of your relationship. hope they will understand.

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Answer 5

true love doesn't hide from your parents.

Answer 6

It's your decision in the end. You gotta be with that guy, not your parents, and they don't have to be best friends with his family. It's a hard situation for you there, not cool sneaking around I bet but if you really want to be with him tell your parents, sit them down and tell how you really feel about him and hope they will understand, it's about your future and your love life, you should be able to decide for yourself not let some drama between your parents ruin everything, but I don't know why they don't like each other so it's kinda hard to say the right thing. Try talking to them, maybe tell them you miss him so much and say it like you havent been seing him but you think about him all the time and really want to be with him but you wwantedto check what they tought and hope they would agree, cause you are totally into him and you feel he's the right for you.

Good luck!

Answer 7

Man or boy? A child should not be going out with an adult man.

Answer 8

Well, if you parents found out, it'll leave a even worse impression on him.

Answer 9

if they love you they will understand!

It WILL take time, they WILL go mad at first

but if you stand your ground they will soon realise its the real thing!

p.s watch the movie "Its a boy / girl thing" ....same thing

Answer 10

Well if they find out then you best tell him before they get a hold of him. but for now i would say just dont go the Romeo and Juliet way and do a dual suicide. If you love him and it was meant to be then it will be and there is nothing either of your parents can do about it. Trust me when i say that your parents want nothing more than to see you happy. They might understand if they catch you and you explain everything in detail to them and leave out nothing. Hope i helped.

Answer 11

Talk to your parents, as it's really unfair that they forbid you from doing things because of an issue that THEY have. Just because they don't like his parents, they shouldn't stop you from being with him. Their problem has nothing to do with you. Talk to your parents, go with your heart, good luck

Answer 12

First of all how old are you ?? If you are an adult why are you sneaking about? Tell your parents that you and your boyfriend are separate from whatever problem there is between his and your parents. Tell your parents the computer is your personal item and you would prefer if they didn't pry in your business ..oh and get a back bone the both of you !

Answer 13

How old are you? If you're over 16, then I don't think it's their business who you date.

You should talk to them and tell them how you feel.

Good Luck!

x

Answer 14

This sounds all too familiar to me!

I was in the same boat about 8 years ago, And ended up telling my parents the truth god they didn't like it but I told them how I felt and if they both loved me they should understand and let me live my live,

Now 8 years on I'm not with that person but Iv learned that our parents love us and don't want to see us get hurt we all get hurt in live but we all make mistakes we just have to learn from them good luck & I hope you & your boyfriend do stay together & get through this tough time

Answer 15

Be careful. Sounds like your in a tough situtation. Talk to your parents and tell them to grow up a bit.

Answer 16

DO WHATS BEST FOR U..AND FOLLOW UR HEART...UR PARENTS ARE GONNA HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT!!

Answer 17

GOd isn't it HOT when you defy your parents.  

Your parents are STUPID for forbidding you to go out with each other.  It only makes you want the other more..  

Answer 18

You don't say how old you are, but I imagine your parents are just worried about you having s*x and getting pregnant.

There's not much you can do about them. Either continue to keep it a secret, or let them know and risk that they'll try to stop you seeing him altogether.