We wanted to leave this place and transfer to some other

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place where we can have a job and we can

have so much opportunity but the problem is my husband got divorced and he has her daughters permanent residence we have the chance to leave but his daughter don't want to leave because she was being brainwash by her mother and her grandmother which the mother of my husband that their not talking for almost 3 years now,this place is not good for kids especially a kid who has a lot of potentials but she was being numb because as what I said she was being brainwashed by her mother but Me and my husband wants to transfer but we cant because shedon'tt want to leave here in this place,all we wanted for her is a good future a nice schools and a nice friends to where we going to transfer.We even brought her thrice as a vacation just to show to her how nice the place we are going to transfer if ever and how friendly the people there and theres a lot of churches compared to where we are right now and all the kids are so friendly to her.Do you think we can transfer in the other place even she dont like to?

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Well... how old is the girl? If she's older (like in her teens) she will probably resent you from taking her away from her friends, but if she is younger it will probably be easier for her to make new friends.  The bottom line is- parents know what is best for the child and sometimes the child doesn't like it, but ya gotta do what ya gotta do! Sure, there may be some fighting and anger from her at first but she'll eventually get over it..