We were best friends, and... It should be that way again.?

Question

Hi again. Well, Me and my Girlfriend have been going out for 3 months. And before that we were best friends. We would always talk, hang out during lunch/ in between classes and other things like that.

And then I knew she liked me, and I thought she was cute, and she has a decent personality. So I asked her out. And we broke up once cause we got in an arguement then got back together.

And right now I'm just thinking that It would be better if we were just friends again. I really like it liked that.

Advice?

I'm thirteen, going into seventh grade.

Answer 1

just tell her how you feel, try not to hurt her, but tell her you liked it better when you were best friends.

Answer 2

Wowz this sound's like, me && my ex bestfriend.. We've dated over && over again.... It suck's because, we aren't best friend's anymore... talk to her about this && tell her, you think it's best that you && her stay friends.!

Answer 3

lol.. the seventh grade how cute !!  im in high skool , do i seem OLD to you ? but anywayz its really good to remain friends b ecause youll always have a companion and most breakups are real nasty !! they kill you on the inside leaving permanent scars, and your friendshhip will b ruined. be happy you have someone to talk to but after a mean and nasty break up thats it ! being friends is better . Are you sure u wannna risk losing her ?

Answer 4

You should just tell her the truth about how you feel, because if you don't tell her soon, she will just fall in love with you even more and it will hurt more if you keep waiting.

Who knows, maybe she just feels the same way as you do but is too shy to tell you.

Just try your best to let her down easily and try not to hurt her.

good luck.

Answer 5

I think at your age, it would be best to be just friends.  If you are going out with her again, I would mention that to her and see what she says. Just say, "I don't know about you, but I was so much happier when we were just friends and it seems I could relax alot more around you"  Just kind of feel the situation out and when it seems right bring it up. I'm sure you will be pretty nervous bringing it up, but it probably would help both of you out! :) Good luck and I hope things work out like you want! :)

Answer 6

Just try talking to her. Tell her that you would take a bullet for her but that she is like a sister to you and you miss being best friends and maybe someday it may be something more.  

Answer 7

Just tell her what you think, that you liked it better when you guys were just friends so you two can hang out without the pressures of being in a relationship

Answer 8

just tell her the truth- that you think you are better as friends. it cant hurt

Answer 9

I think that you are right, it would be better if you guys just were best friends again, especially in 7th grade. Unfortunately, chances aren't that great at you guys being as close as you guys once were.  You can be, but it will take awhile...so you have to stay with it. Make sure she knows that you want to be really good friends again. Trust me, it will be very awkward the first week or so. I would write her a note saying like, " Blah Blah Blah...I really like you, alot, but i think it was better when we were really good friends. Friendships last longer than relationships and i always want you as a friend...." trust me, i know its tacky, but she will think its sweet. Then, if you still like her, give it another try in a year or so.  

Answer 10

If you were friends before then you should be able to be friends after, just be honest with her.