my cousin-in-law was supposed to go out with me the night before my wedding, but her fiance didn't want her to go (we were going to go to a local bar for appetizers and a drink, nothing else), so she concocted a story for me about why she couldn't go. i had just made plans with her, so i was alone on that night until my fiance came home from his dinner with family.
anyway...
now they're having their wedding. my husband and i are still peeved about me getting stood up the night before our wedding.
this is going to be a big deal wedding at $100/guest for 300 people (they're middle class. don't ask me how they're affording this).
i'm giving them a juicer for the bridal shower, and we're going to give them a gift card for $100 for their wedding. are we being too cheap? should we just let bygones be bygones and spend a couple hundred? we are both only going out of social responsibility and respect for the entire family, not to celebrate a marriage we're against anyway.
i know we sound mean, but wasn't it mean to stand me up?
my question isn't if we should go, because we've determined that we will. my question is about what kind of gift we should give. should we be more generous since they're spending some money?
they spent about $100 on us for our wedding, and we got married in city hall with a small family party afterwards.
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