Wedding Jitters? Any advice for the bride to be?

Question

I am getting married to the most wonderful man of my dreams August 30th. Tonight while I was making our cd for the wedding I got this overwhelming nervousness come over me. it is not cold feet. I love him more that life and cannot wait to marry him, I am just so nervous. About everything. we do not have a wedding planner and I am dong most myself and am so worried about the reception and forgetting something really important. THis is not a question, just needed to vent and get advice. Thanks

Answer 1

Yes, you're just nervous. All will seem right again when you are walking down the isle with the love of your life waiting at the other end, ready to commit his life to you!  

Answer 2

Remember that it's one day. You have your whole lives ahead of you. Don't worry about the small stuff, and if you need help ask for it! People LOVE to help with weddings.

You'll be nervous that day too. But believe me, you'll be so happy. I had tunnel-vision when I got married. I don't even remember who was there.

Happy Wedding! Good luck to you.

Answer 3

dont worry iv done all my plannin my self, as long as u and ur other half turn up u will be ok lol. i get married the same day and im just going with the flow if u have done everything ur self like i have u know were ur up to good luck

Answer 4

Well, then, this is not an answer. I just needed 2 points.

Ha,ha.

Good luck! I'm sure everything will be fine.

Answer 5

normal nervousness about the event-be glad it's not about the guy!

i also planned my own wedding, but everybody there-even strangers (caterer, etc.) realizes how important this day is and everybody will work hard to make it go smoothly. Girlfriends, relatives, especially your mom will take care of things. don't worry, have fun and congratulations.

Answer 6

What you do first is you find a room, shut the door, hold a pillow to your face and scream. Then take the pillow and bash some stuff around for a while. Then have a good cry.

Then when all that frustration is out, find a trusted friend, sibling, or parents who would be willing to take some things off your hands. If that is not available, then maybe have another scream and pillow session and take some deep breaths and make a list of everything that needed/needs to be done. Start with something that is already done, so that you can cross it off.

Then as your wedding approaches, call the florist and double check. Call the cake person and double check. Call the florist back and triple check.

and whil you're making that cd, listen to some soothing love music.

I don't have a wedding planner, but my mom is going a lot for me. I'm still totally freaking out about things not going right, but I'm just trying to get myself to calm down.

Every night I do 1 thing. Even if I've already done something big that day (like picked centerpieces) I still do 1 thing. It could anything from working on the cd, to writing down some songs you want to play, to re-reading/altering your vows.  

Answer 7

Write everything down and check your list; be sure you delegate as many of the jobs as you can, especially those things that need to be done the day of - if you have a good friend who isn't in the wedding, ask them to be the "go to" person.  

I guess you need to know that something will go wrong and these things make the most wonderful stories about your wedding.  Whatever happens, you'll still be just as married so don't panic, don't be a bridezilla, and enjoy your wedding day.