Wedding Night Help!!

Question

I'm a virgin and I'm getting married in 3 weeks. Is there anything I can do to make the wedding night special?

Answer 1

trust me for this.....

whenever u tend to plan for these things, nothing happens like that....instead, something else happens....well, one good thing is to wear a s**y dress, when he comes to the room.....it will be very exciting.....

Answer 2

You can begin by stretching yourself out with your fingers. Well lubricated, of course. First one then two, then three fingers. That way you can contol the pace at which your hymen is broken, and stop when it hurts. Your husband is not likely to do that.

You should want your wedding night to be full of love and romance. That's the best way I can think of to make it special.

If you want your wedding night to be really special and suffer pain and bleeding, then don't listen to me. Just let him ram it in and take the horror in the name of your virtue.

Answer 3

nooo idea but congrats! and good luck and have funn!

Answer 4

DO NOT feel obligated or pressured.

I have heard from a few couples who were SO tired after the days events, just went right to bed, and there is NOTHING wrong with that.

Take your time, hold each other, bath/shower together, no pressure on either end. Relax and just enjoy one another. If that means all you do is sleep and cuddle that night, it's fine or if that means to make love then that is OK too.

Just buy a nice Teddy to wear, nothing complicated, just a pretty Teddy you feel comfortable in.  

Answer 5

Just relax and enjoy. Go with the flow and everything will happen the way it should. Congrats and have a lovely wedding...and night lol :)

Answer 6

I TOTALLY agree with Megs answer.  She knows what she's talking about.  You don't have to do anything extra to make it special.  Talk to your fiance about it...he's probably a little bit nervous too, even if he's not a virgin.  Also talking about it with him will help you guys get in the mood together!

Answer 7

Just be yourself and tell your husband that you love him, things will happen on their own.  Do not be frightened, you may even just fall asleep from exhaustion after your wonderful wedding day.  You are the special thing that your husband will want on your wedding night.  BE kind and gentle and loving and have a long and happy married life.  

Answer 8

There is nothing you need to do. It will be the first time with your new husband, is that not special enough?

Besides if you plan the way you want it, it will not happen like that and you will only be disappointed. Just relax and be yourself everything will turn out perfectly as long as you are honest and true to yourself.

Congratulations and best of luck

MS

Answer 9

for my wedding i was planning on getting little outfits he would enjoy and just some other toys, then it will take off from there

everyone has their own idea of special....

the best is to go with the flow it its your first time, but in the end its up to you

Answer 10

okay its going to be your first time... first of all, i think its ridiculous to have any s*x toys because those are for after you are totally comfortable with the whole thing - sorry i just had to say that - okay i think if you want to make this night extra special, you should simply have some tasteful white lingerie (and your garter!), some candles and maybe even some rose petals. your husband should do those things but just incase he didnt think about it, make sure to remind him. you want it to be sweet and romantic not raunchy and dirty. you have the rest of your lives to get "kinky" lol. i promise =)