Wedding gift?

Question

Is it okay to send along with a card a personal check? We won't be able to attend our friend's wedding (friends from college). Would it be okay just to send a check or does that seem tacky? Would a gift card be better? How much would be a decent amount? Thirty bucks? They know we along with them are just starting out, we're definitely not rich. Would this be exceptable?

Answer 1

I would get them a gift certificate from wherever they are registered. That way they can get something from their list that no one picked out.

Answer 2

u know what u should defenetly get ......sox in a tube

Answer 3

I definitly think whatever you give is fine. But instead of money, do they want anything for a new house or for a baby or somehthing. See if they have a registry at any stores and get them something there. Or just give them the money...

Answer 4

Umm make it 40 at least. Even if you're starting out you were once friends and even total strangers give at least 25-30, something you aren't so yea be a bit generous.

Answer 5

NO CHECKS!! soo impersonal-ESPECIALLY if you wont be attending the wedding---if your on a budget-maybe send something that will remind your collage buddy of old times(like a framed pic or an inside joke?) if cant think of nething---you can always send a small, inexpensive gift to celebrate their union(my suggestion--A vibrator!)

Answer 6

woah! a CHECK?!? GIFT CARD?!?!?!

ok, go onto amazon. They have cool things that you can send to their house. Get something they won't expect and really like for example, a slushy machine (around 25-30$) or a mini popcorn machine. (i saw one for 15 bucks.) i would hate a friend who sent me money for my wedding! no offence

Answer 7

Go to Ross. I always fine the best things for really cheap.  They are good quality and will look like you paid a fortune.  That's what I always do, because I am always on a tight budget.

Answer 8

Ask them if they have a gift registry set up somewhere. If they dont a card and some money would be nice. Maybe get them a gift card for Bed Bath and Beyond or something. Put like $50 on it so they can get something decent.

Answer 9

I'd try something else like some sort of small appliance that could be useful in them starting a household. A check is a nice thought, but thats kind of like saying 'hey youre poor, this might help you out!' just buy something cheap online and have it sent to their house. Cheers!

Answer 10

I wouldnt send them money send them gift card or something else

Answer 11

I got married less than a year ago. We got tons of checks in cards. Totally acceptable!! My aunt even sent us $25... doesn't matter how much. Any amount is fine. Don't feel you have to put a high number on it. Coming from a recent bride, it's nice to know people care and are thinking of you. And ever little bit helps for going towards something else. We were saving up for our honeymoon. It adds up fast so whatever amount you send will be appreciated!!!

Answer 12

It's definitely fine to send a card and a check - I would go more around $50 though, especially since they're friends.

Answer 13

fine fine fine.

Answer 14

What is wrong with everybody?!  Of course, I check is fine.  That is what newly married people want, money.  A check is absolutely acceptable.  It's easily mailable and then the couple can use it for whatever they want.  Sometimes, gift cards are more of a pain than cash.  If you rsvp'd that you would be unable to make it, then anything you give should be appreciated.

Answer 15

I would give 40 if you can.  Money is always good, and a personal check is fine.

Answer 16

get them a 50 dollar gift card to target!