Wedding night concerns please helpp?

Question

okay, im a virgin but does the guy do some oral on that night or is it just inercourse. do you give him oral? how do you begin like what do i say or do? what if he doesnt wnat to ?! plzz helppp. :)) and thanks. any stories or experiences??

Answer 1

You should talk about it with your fiance, everyones night is different. talk about what you would like to happen, and would not. It's better that way, and breaks the tension when the night does come!

and good for you on waiting until you were married!

Answer 2

RELAX! your first concern should be with finding out what you like, then him. leave off the oral c**p until you find out about the straight stuff. then if you are so inclined, well.... personally, the thought of going down on my husband never struck a cord. but, if you spend too much time worrying, instead of getting excited, you won't have the best time possible. it may not be great the 1st time anyway, if your hymen is still intact. it should get better. count yourself lucky if neither one of you knows anything and you get to spend several months, if not years, finding out what the other enjoys. good luck.

Answer 3

Just relax and go with it. Don't do anything that you aren't comfortable with.

You need to talk to him and find out what you both expect from your wedding night.

I didn't participate in oral activities until I had been sexually active for some time. So if you don't want to do oral don't. If you do want to give him oral and him give you oral have a shower and refresh your selves for each other.

s*x can hurt for a girl on her first time. It took me several attempts for me to actually have s*x so if it doesn't happen on your wedding night don't get too upset.

I hope this helps you out.

Answer 4

I guess everyones first time (wedding night or not) is different. Trust me, the more thought you put into it, the more awkward it will be. Just try to relax and go with the flow. If you would like to take the lead, maybe a little fourplay would help in making it feel especially good and it might also help both of you feel a bit more comfortable.  

Answer 5

what you do on your wedding night is up to you,

but normally you do only intercourse because the point of it is

your virginity is meant to be your gift to your husband.

Answer 6

I would definately talk to him about it. It's really nice that you waited that doesn't happen often anymore. No first time is the same and every couple is different so what will go on is up to you. But let him know how you feel and let him give you a little guidance and it will help ease your mind a ton!

Answer 7

Don't worry about it. Let him take the lead and things will happen normally. The more stressed you get, the more awkward it will be. It's like planning a conversation before it takes place. It never works out the way you had planned anyway. Let things happen naturally and you will be more relaxed. And btw, way to go!