Weird Dreams, can you help me decipher?

Question

Okay so for the past couple of weeks I have been having these random dreams. About 6 months ago I came out to all my (straight) girlfriends. I was really scared, but they are great, supportive friends. Now in that 6 months I have had a couple of very explicit dreams about some of those friends. I do not think or feel about them that way. I just can't figure out why I would have these hot dreams about someone I'm not interested in who isn't interested in me. Is it just my mind's way of validating that I did the right thing, coming out and being myself or am I subconsciously drawn to them for some reason?

Answer 1

its simple. you want them to accept you and subconciously seducing them sexually or having s*x with you in your dreams is how you are convincing your self you have won then over.

its not sexual at all.  its a very common thing.

Answer 2

Sounds like you need to start dating.  I say that the dreams are showing you how relieved you truly are to be so emotionally intimate with your friends, that it came out as physical intimacy in the dream.

Answer 3

i think your dreams are showing you that you've accepted yourself around your straight friends... and that you feel accepted and really comfortable and just simply in a good place there.. your dreams have a deeper meaning than what you're seeing.. it's about being okay with yourself. being comfortable with your skin.. don't worry it doesn't mean you want more from your friends or that you're interested in that way.. it's just relief and total freedom..

Answer 4

Actually Maddie, what I see in your writing is a profound loneliness. Coming "out" to your straight friends and being accepted was a relief for you. The point is this, you have viewed the lives of these people and people like them for quite sometime while you suffered in silence. For them, acceptance was a given. Life was easy and uncomplicated for them and this is what you want for yourself but didn't have.

Still there is in the back of your mind a dread that your sexuality will be a point of contention with some people and that will take away your feeling of acceptance and safety. Something the straight girls in your perception won't have to deal with.

So, in your "sub-conscious" mind, having wild and passionate love making with them is the closest you can become to "being them". Being them with all the acceptance and no worries which that entails.

This is why you are drawn to them in your dreams and admire them in your waking periods. To say you are not interested in someone who isn't interested in you is not being totally honest with yourself. There are things about them you find attractive and desirable but fear of rejection won't let you move beyond that point.

I hope this has been of some help to you....

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