Welcoming step mother into our family?

Question

my dad is getting remarried, and i would like to write them a card for their wedding. how should i welcome my step mom-to-be and express how happy i am for them?

Answer 1

Hmmm great question and hard well i think u should bye ur step mother a gift or show her how u love her in ur own way be yourself lol later.

Answer 2

give them a simple gift that you personally made. Big things come in small packages.

Answer 3

Anything simple and from the heart will be welcomed by a soon to be Step-mother.  A physical token of acceptance, like a card or a small gift, would be a wonderful way of letting her know that she is truly welcome in your life.  

After my husband and I met and dated for a while, the thing that intimidated me the most was meeting his daughter (she was 15 at the time).  And one of my biggest joys was being introduced at one of her school functions as her step-mother.  

Don't let other peoples bad experiences cloud your judgement.  A step family is not an easy thing to get used to, for all involved, but if each of you is open and flexible, things will be fine.  

Answer 4

Dont bother, she will just throw it back on your face. She may seem nice now but after a while she will just turn and try to control you. Its what all step mothers do and i know i sound rude but i have a step mum so i know what its like. I also know other people who get treated the same by their step mums. Its true what they say about 'evil step mother' sorry to break it to you =/ x*x