Well, I just need help, cause I want to....?

Question

Ask my mum to put my on birth control, NOT because I am sexually active, just because I have God-awful cramps every month. What I need help with is, how can I tell my mum I want on it for cramps, but make it to where she won't think I am having s*x, cause I'm not having s*x. And then like, is it true it can Eff up your periods? And make them last for a long time? Help. Please. Lol.

Answer 1

Just tell her that your cramps are really bad and you don't want to go through them every month.

If she starts to think you're sexually active and that's why you want to, just remind her of how bad your periods have been. Hopefully she'll know you're just wanting to stop those cramps!

My friend had something similar to you and it turned out it was actually a medical problem within her womb. Hopefully you're just suffering from cramps, but it's worth getting it checked out.

Answer 2

Next time you get a cramp ask her if there's anyway to make them less painful other than constantly taking advil.  If its her idea shes less likely to be suspicous

good luck!

  

Answer 3

Does your mom have reason to believe that you are (or wish to be) sexually active?  Whether or not she believes you are sexually active could really effect her reaction to you requesting birth control pills.   Just ask her (at a good time) if you can speak with her privately.  Say "Mom, you know I have these horrid cramps, and I really think birth control might help".  Her reaction (or at least mine would be).  Sure hun, we'll make you a Dr.s appointment to talk about it.  Don't worry about talking to your mom about this, she'll be there for you.  And I know it can be embarassing to talk to your mom about this, but don't forget, she's been through it all!

Answer 4

Why don't you ask your mom to make you a doctors appointment, and then tell your doctor about your cramps? That way the doctor suggesting that you go on birth-control (if they even think you need to just for cramps) then it won't be all your idea.

Just tell you mom you're having horrible cramps and think you should see a doctor.

Answer 5

hey,,

I'm on the pill at the moment for my periods exactly the reason why you want go on it.

at the start i went to my doctor at school and i was worried that my mum would flip out on the idea of me going on the pill so i got the doctor to ring my mum and explain every thing.

you just need to be upfront with her and tell her the truth (that your not going to use it for s*x)

Answer 6

http://www.thepill.com/thepill/aboutorth...

Show her this site. Just ask her to sit with you at the computer and show her.

Tell her you did searches on how to lower your cramps. (make sure you do this to. You do not need to lie to her and it will help you anyway.)

It will get you both talking. And that is always a great beginning.

And if i was your mom....

I would listen. But I have helped many a teen girl and am open minded. As this is my field of work.

Do not worry to much hun. She will listen.

Answer 7

be like

'mom i want birth control because i have really bad cramps'

and then tell her your not sexually active or something