Well..., black ppl scare me?

Question

help how do i not be scarred of black ppl

i cant help it i just think theyre gonna stab me or sumthin

wat can i do 2 get over this cuz its makin things bad 4 me.

Answer 1

I don't know how old you are.

It sounds like you have not been exposed to people other than your own race.  Maybe you have not been out in the world yet to learn that most people are loving people no matter what race they are.

As you get more exposed to people of a different culture, you will find them quite nice.  Every race has its problem people.

Go out into the world so you can learn the wonderful truth.

Answer 2

Try talking to or befriending a black person. They're just like you or me, just black. I agree some are pretty scary, but so are some white people. I would also bet you are pretty young with little to no experience with black people and as you get older, you will learn not to be afraid of black people!!

LMAO

Answer 3

There is nothing to be scared about. You have black crazies and you got your white crazies too. I work at the courthouse here and there are more whites that freak me the h**l out.  

Answer 4

stop watching BET

there are bad people of all races, some might stab people and others are really good people, I dont know what else to tell ya

Answer 5

you should be scared of all races not just blacks cuz theres always good and bad in all races not just blacks

Answer 6

Do an experiment by living or sharing the same quarters with at least one other person who is black.  I hope it helps minimize if not cease your fear for your life around black ppl.  We won't bite, really.

Answer 7

why would you be scared of them? Because some of them are not good people? Even white people aren't always good. I have a lot of black friends. One of my mom's best friends is black! My "uncle" and "aunt" are black. (They aren't REALLY my aunt and uncle...they're  just like family, though!)

Just remember, not all black people are bad. Some black people are. Some white, hispanic, asian, canadian, japanese, are bad, too.

Answer 8

Wow...

Well if its black people in general you're in trouble.

If you mean like the gangstas, i'm afraid of them too.

Answer 9

THERES NOTHING DIFFERENT WITH BLACK PEOPLE!

their ordinary people and theres nothing bad about them

u just have to get to know them

Most of them are REALLY nice

REALLY REALLY nice!

That's a racist thing u just said

They're ancestors have just been in the sun longer!!!

Answer 10

find a friend who is black  

Answer 11

BOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 12

oh get over it... it's BS. people can stab you -- no matter what color they are!

Answer 13

that really is racist...there are more white people that would stab you than black people so maybe you should be afraid of white people.

Answer 14

*****, I'm black n white.. Are u afraid of me? Well I hope u r cuz u r RACIST! u need 2 go n **** urself!  

Answer 15

uhmm theyre just human you realize right?!?!?!  

Answer 16

realize that everyone is the same ; besides different skin pigments.

some people come from rougher sides of the city, but that isn't 'black people', etc.  that's stereotypical & racist, as you probably realize. so just forget about all the stories and shows and whatever you have seen that makes you think this, talk to different cultures, expose yourself to many more races than you do now.

Answer 17

You're scaring the H*!! out of me right now.  NO!............put that knife down Norman>>>>>>>>>>>>>, Oh that's right Norman's not black.  Oh and neither was Ted Bundy, or Jeffrey Dalmer, or Eileen Warmus, etc etc etc......

Answer 18

That sounds slightly racist, but it is a problem.

Just think of black people who have inspired you, or who are very successful. Celebritites may help - Beyonce, Martin Luther King etc are all black but they have successful careers and have done good in the World!

Good Luck =D

Answer 19

Don't be scared.. every race has someone bad and someone good.. get to know some...

Answer 20

first off you have to realize black people are just as good or bad as white people... there are some black people that are some of the best people you would ever want to meet... and some white people I have known are some of the worse people i have ever seen look at the fact that most all serial killers are mostly white people. Have you ever thought of that? Black people are the same as whites they have feelings and a soul and the mind to make choices good or bad the same as white people. Chances are you have been brought up hearing that black people are bad and ect... ect,,, but you have to give them a chance i mean there might be some black people you meet that are bad but you have just as much of a chance of meeting a white person that is bad too. Just give them a chance get to know some of them and i bet you can change that fear... heck you might just become good friends. you never know what Life has in store. Give them and yourself a chance my friend! Best of luck to you! PS your really not suppose to ask racially related questions on here just to let you know

Answer 21

Turn on you lights.

Answer 22

It's not your fault. If you don't know any normal black people and all you get is what the media tells you, what are you supposed to think? I agree with what some others have said, you should try to think of black people who aren't scary and seem normal and not 'ghetto.' Martin Luther King is certainly a good start and Morgan Freeman too.

And honestly you should be weary of and black guy who looks kinda stereotypical, because there really are a lot of a******s out there. Not to say you should immediately think they are but be cautious. Same way you'd be cautious about a big biker dude, it's just common sense.

Good luck man, hope you meet some normal black people and learn to feel better about them.

Answer 23

I am black and there is nothing to be scared of me. yes there are some bad black people out there. not all are like that. so just give us a chance.

Answer 24

You just need to understand they are just like the rest of us.

They only will stab you if you give them a reason too.  

Answer 25

Get over yourself.

It's not like black people go around stabbing people.

White people could do that too.

The only way to really get over any fear is to face it.

Make some friends and you'll realize you're being an idiot for being afraid of them.

Answer 26

no its not racist.

i have a similar fear to junkies like people all strung out or sweating profusely. i just get shivers and get scared, but it is because i was attacked by one not long ago.

and the same goes for walking alone in the dark. (I was attacked at 6 30 in the mornin) so if its dawn i wont go out alone. (i work mornings sometimes)

if you want to get over your fear of black people, maybe make friends with one. i know that's hard, like i can't imagine being friends with a junkie, but i am starting small, like going out in the morning when i need to and not being accompanied, im trying to be braver.

so maybe wen u encounter a black person, be friendly to them, and they might be nice back. this will begin to make you feel better.

hope this helps...

:)

Answer 27

You should get to know Jesus Christ, and He'll take those irrational fears away.

Answer 28

hey dude not all black ppl are like that, som black ppl are a******s dat should be sent to prison n killed but som are som of the best ppl ull meet belive me.

Answer 29

YOU ARE A RACIST SOB.

Answer 30

im black and dont wana stab you- i just think ur fear is foolish and ignorant- you cant label an entire race as scary. im sure most black ppl wouldnt wana stab you. take some classes talk to some ppl get outta watever bubble ur in and experience the world there are a lot of great nice fun exciting etc. ppl out there of all races and most times they really arent that hard to find. only a small minority of ppl wana do bad things like that and those are the ppl that are in jail or belong there. Your fear is unfounded.

Answer 31

IM SORRY FOR YOU.