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Well I keep seeing this guy and I keep seeing him in my dreams it's like a deja vu I keep seeing him?

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  1. hmmmmmm interesting


  2. hmmm weird

  3. This happened to me long, long ago when I had a crush on a guy.  He also had a crush on me, but my crush was stronger.  But, you see, he was what I called The Unobtainable.  He always had a girlfriend or this or that FWB situation.  So basically, he could never be my sweetheart or vice versa.  He haunted my dreams for years.   Many years later, our paths crossed.  It really is a small world, after all, so that shouldn't be surprising.  Well, I told him that he used to haunt my dreams, and I learned that the same thing was happening to him.  Having said all of that, my interpretation of your dreams about the guy is that somehow you are kindred spirits.  My advice to you (and I am no psychic; I am just a woman who has been through love and heartbreak and have enjoyed the journey nevertheless) is to keep a journal.  Do not obsess over the journal.  Your dreams sound obsessive enough.  Keep the journal faithfully at least for a year, and do not read the previous passages until at least a year has passed.  Only exception:  If the guy wants to enter your life to the point that he actually walks  up to you one day and introduces himself to you, AND your intuition and common sense tell you he's is safe to communicate with, AND you are over 21 years of age, please take it slow and just talk.  Talk only in public, making sure that a trusted friend or relative is standing nearby should he try any funny stuff or dangerous stuff.  My advice holds whether you are 22 or 32 or 42 or 52.  Now, here's the scary part:  What if the guy is purposely popping up in your real life for a bad (read:  sinister) reason?  Again, use your intuition.  Ask yourself WHERE this man tends to show up in your real life?  It may be time to begin being extra-alert about your surroundings.  We women grow up believing fairytales from books, television and films that teach us that men who magically keep appearing in our environments are coming on to us and that this is always good.  This is not true.  Again, sometimes people place themselves in our vicinity because they want something.  Be cautious.  Don't be paranoid, but be cautious and smart.  One more thing, if you are 18 or over and you have been communicating "anonymously" with a stranger over the Internet, and let's say you have been doing this rather recently (or within the past year), and the man you referrred to above has been showing up in your neighborhood or near your job, that is definitely a danger signal.  Sometimes, women and men unwittingly give out personal information about themselves, and a criminal would know just how to add up the details to find out more about you.  I am not trying to creep you out totally, but just don't get carried away with the fantasy that the media feeds women.  You just wouldn't want the man of your dreams to turn out to be the man of your nightmares.

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