Well This is depressing...

Question

Ok, well the boy i like is named Eddie.

and me and my Friend was on the phone, i decided to play alittle trick

on Eddie. So i made my Friend call Him and "ACT" like she's flirting with him, [with me on the line also, but im staying silent]

And He was flirting with her also that day..!!!

and when i hour passed, i called him by myself. and Since i knew he clearly liked her too, i decided to ask him to tell me if he really liked me or not. and he told me that he doesnt Like me anymore.!

and then he told me that he has other b*****s that he likes, and he also said he will call me in the long run !

i felt so damaged..and yet he goes and calls my Friend.!

what should i do?what do you think?

Answer 1

well, you dont want to be with him anyway if he calls girls b*tches and treats you like that. get over him. wasnt meant to be. and if he calls back politely tell him off. thats what i would do.

Answer 2

You tested his feelings for you and now you know where you stand with him.  In a way, it's better you found out now before he had a chance to hurt you more in the future.

In the future, I wouldn't recommend playing that joke on other guys though.  It can really backfire.

Answer 3

Hi Sweetie,  What you did to him was a pretty nasty prank, maybe he knew you were doing this and that's why his reaction? Or maybe its a good thing your done with him, especially if hes referring to his girl friends like b*****s. Everyone makes mistakes like this as their "growing up", don't let yourself get sick over it. Believe me, there will be plenty more boys ahead in your life, be choosy.  Treat yourself good Sweetheart.

Answer 4

Step 1: Ensure your emotion is controlled daily. Don't over reacted, stay calm and don't get worry easily

Step 2: Think before your action. Don't repeat her past experience on herself. Remind herself from time to time.

Step 3: Be confident to yourselves. Remember everyone is the winner. "Only One sperms out of millions fertilize an egg"

Step 4: Get a group of close friends to share your experience and get some activities that would occupied your time

Step 5: Increase scope of life. Meaning that she should involve in more social activities like dancing, outing and others.

Step 6: Put a rubberband on the wrist. If there is a negative thought, Tighten the rubber band and release it. Hence the effect of the pain would be able to reduce the possibility of negative thought.

Good Luck.

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Answer 5

why would you play a trick like that? it was bound to only hurt you. sounds like this guy gets around... watch out for the STDs

Answer 6

o im sorry to hear :(. sucks doesn't it? i say leave the guy alone and start looking for a new guy.   He doesn't sound like one to keep, and im sure your friend will figure this out soon enough.

Answer 7

well, first of all, what you and your friend did was just nasty-and you are supposed to be his friend, and you play a rotten trick like that on him, no wonder he called you a *****. i think you have probably lost a friend because of a stupid little prank. you have to be aware of how you treat people, don't try and play jokes at their expense-its just mean. maybe he will give you another chance, but if he doesn't, take this as a lesson learned, and don't do it again-to anybody. ok?

Answer 8

You should keep talking to him.  Maybe tell him about the trick you played - and how it actually backfired.