Well if i show my gray hair to my spouse , is it not the best to do , kind of thing?

Question

well iv heard that no matter what..dont share your aging process with your spouse?

Answer 1

this is natural yaar don't worry.

Answer 2

I suppose it may depend on where you found these gray hairs! ;-)

Isn't life suppose to be growing old together?     If the hair is a bother to you, then go buy some dye!!    

Answer 3

As if he's not going to see it anyway! You live in the same house, don't you?

Answer 4

Honey, you are aging together, aren't you?  Why be afraid to have him think badly of you.  Who cares?  It's going to happen to ALL of us, there's nothing we can do about it.  I think the best thing to do is embrace it...If you want, color your hair, but embrace your knowledge and such at this age.  I'm 42 now and honestly, I wouldn't want to be that stupid 22 year old girl anymore anyway!  

Answer 5

What a shallow marriage... yikes!

Answer 6

LOL  That is just silly.  Your spouse is going to notice.  Don't you think it is better to share even the bad things with your spouse.  Aging is just a fact of life.

Answer 7

dont know y u r asking this question?this is not an issue at all. If your partner loves you ,then he/she(sry i dnt knw if u r a male or female)must not be concerned about such a thing...therefore go and show all your grey hair to your partner, ok ji?

Answer 8

You dont have to share. Aging process is part of life for a husband and wife unless they live away from one another  

Answer 9

First, look to see if your husband has any gray hair.  

Answer 10

This is bologne.  Your husband is going to grow old with you, right?  You can't hide gray hair and wrinkles forever!  He should love you no matter what.

Answer 11

I personally don't see why this should even be an issue at all.

grow old gracefully ...together!

Answer 12

this is not a issue.i have a lot of grey hair at 36,and my hubby has just a few,but he says we need to accept reality and does not allow me to dye my hair.he says be what u are,do'nt care if others accept u that way

Answer 13

showing your gray hair to your spouse

i guess it is not a bad idea, that depends on your spouse temperament.

if she is very liberal she may suggest you for DYE.

if she is not, YOU MAY DIE. (which is possible after a heart break).

So make your own choice.

Answer 14

I agree with you, some things we do to make ourselves appear better to our spouse is better kept in private.  I work very hard to hide my actual age, and I prefer to keep those activities private.

Answer 15

Ask him.  

Answer 16

Getting older is a part of life,If you weren't getting older you'd be dead but if it bothers you buy some hair color