Well it looks like I'm out for this month :(

Question

Well I'm at 13dpo and my temp has been slowly going down for the last few days...I'm really emotional and feeling crampy and grumpy...AF is due tomorrow or maybe the day after at most. I'm so depressed again...and I'm really starting to get fed up with DH (PMS!!!) telling me to relax.

Not to mention I have to entertain his mother and her friend today who want to see out new house(while he's at work)...like I really feel like dealing with that today...(mother-in-law is like Raymond's mom on Everybody loves Raymond and she will certainly be like "sooo it's been almost a month since you last period....any signs????UGH I WILL TELL YOU WHEN I'M PREGNANT STOP ASKING ME!!!!!!)

sorry...just needed to vent!!!

It's only been 5cycles ttc and if I didn't know I have endometriosis and a cyst going against me I wouldn't be so discouraged yet...but when I try to time everything perfectly month after month it's hard to think it's going to happen...

Sorry I don't really expect anyone to say anything but I just needed to get it out in writing since I have nobody to vocalize it too.

here's my chart

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2027a6

Answer 1

I know your frustration. I have been ttc for 4 months now. Hopefully our time will come soon, and you never know, it doesn't mean that this isn't your month yet. It usually happens when we don't expect it so maybe it will be your month after all. Good luck sweetie and baby dust! Our time will come:)

Answer 2

oh hunni i can really sympathize with you, we've been ttc for 8 months now, but ihaven'tt told any of my family, idon'tt know which is harder, trying to hide disappointment or being reminded of a possible disappointment by over excited relatives.

dont loose heart you havnt actually had AF yet. u never know.

i wish you all the luck for the future

xxxxx

Answer 3

I always say it isnt over until AF sings so don't get upset until you  know for sure.  I understand about having the family know. I chose to tell my mother, sister and a few friends about us ttc but not his family because I don't think I could deal with that extra stress, it is just different when it is your own family. However, i did not know it was going to take us this long and now I dread getting the are you late are you pregnant questions every month. I know they are just trying to be supportive, but still it is too much some times. What is worse than that is that I have just found out that two of my cousins are expecting which makes it that much harder. I am trying to relax and de-stress for this round. I hear that stress is the worst oponent when ttc. I hope that you get your BFP don't give up yet. Baby Dust to you.

Answer 4

10 months and still getting BFNs.....my OB has referred DH and I to an RE specialist (we're over age 35)....we do have mild male factor issues (morphology) but nothing major...but we are trying IUI this month and hopefully we will finally get that BFP.

Hang in there....I feel your pain...I am surrounded by pregnant people and overeager relatives and friends, it's never easy.

Best of luck!

ttc 10 months, no meds, mild male factor issue

Answer 5

Well all I can say is i totally understand how you feel. I have been trying for 9 months and AF is due on Sunday. I know it will come because I have all the usual signs. It's so upsetting isn't it. I stupidly told my friends and family and wish I didn't, because all i get is "it will be you next" and "any luck on the baby front?!".

A positive thing is that you have only been TTC 5 months which isn't long at all.

Try to stay positive and calm and get yourself some choccies and a hot water bottle. Each time AF arrives look at it as a fresh month and a new attempt.

Loads of e-hugs and baby dust, you are not alone.

x*x

p.s thanks HealthyB - I have just booked a MAM massage!

Answer 6

Sounds like you'vre been under alot of stress lately. Stress can most definitely throw off your cycle and prevent you from conceiving.

I ttc for 18months and what finally worked for me was maya abdominal massage(MAM). MAM helps to get your body working more effeciently so you can achieve pregnancy alot more easily. So impressed with the results, I became a practitioner myself!

arvigomassage.com

Answer 7

I don't think you are out until you get your period.  I checked out your chart and you are still above your coverline, so there's still hope.  Not everyone sees a huge jump in temperature.  You might want to take a pregnancy test tomorrow morning unless you get a regular flow.  Goodluck and baby dust to you!!!