Well it was a bfn again?

Question

Im hitting the downward spiral again!!! Just feeling realy low!! Everytime somebody i know finds out they are pregnant i sefishly ask myself why them and not me...If i see a baby i just wanna cry and calapse in a heap...Im losing all hope for myself and dont know how many more bfns i can take....I want it so much as i am sure most of all u ttc"s are...I just want it to be my turn and not to feel really low at the arrival of all afs...Need posistive thoughts ladies please before i lose the plot x*x

Answer 1

Don't give up!! Someway, somehow, you will have your miracle.  I wish you so much luck.  I'm sure you know that stress doesn't help.... and as hard as it is, try not to stress too much!! ok??  And remember, there are hundreds of people here to  pray for you and go through it with you!! me included!!

Good luck!! keep us all posted!!

Answer 2

I was the same way before I finally got pregnant. My husband and I tried for over 2 years before finally getting pregnant. During those 2 years, I found myself inwardly 'hating' my friends, family and co-workers who were getting pregnant. I stopped visiting families with small children. I stopped going to baby showers. I even avoided the baby sections at the local department stores.

Keep your chin up. I don't know what all you have done in your ttc journey. But hopefully you have many options left to bring you a positive result.

Answer 3

Omg i sooo know how u feel!

but when u do get the dreaded AF...

try and think well its not long untill u get to try again and hopefully be successful that cycle round!

in the mean while feel free to ask as many questions as your points will allow u on anything u need to know!

the women are great on this site!

research to highten your chances to

( that helps keep me sane )

good luck i really hope u get your possitive soon!

Answer 4

Yep, I know it's hard. Keep at it. Try to make it fun and DON'T be setting deadlines. Do you have a hobby you can persue? How many months have you been TTC? See a dr if you are worried you will never become pregnant. Othewise, just keep yourself busy, keep charting your cycles and timing your intercourse for ovulation!