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Question

me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost a year,, we have fingered and showered together and all that stuff,, but just recently its like she has no sexual interest in me at all,, she says that we should stop fingering,, and when we went to get in the shower today,, she got in first and basically denied me getting in because she sayed she changed her mind after we had already talked about it previously,, i just feel like im not good enough for her or something anymore,, like she needs someone better [(sexually)] and that im not giving it to her. although she says she likes it,, all of it,, she suddenly refuses to do anything other than a kiss.

Answer 1

Hmm... I think you should move on and find someone who appreciates YOU and wants to be with YOU.

Answer 2

that happened to me

but it got better after a while

maybe you should sit down and talk to her

she'll hopefully open up to you and tell you what's wrong

communication is the best way to resolve things

Answer 3

Maybe the sexual feelings have died in the relationship. You gotta do something to light that flame again. Or just go up and talk to her about it. Its gotta be something wrong no one just stops wanting to have s*x...maybe thats just me. No its like everyone. Maybe things are just getting boring for her. Or hate to say this..maybe she has found someone else (cheating) that maybe is giving her better things s*x wise.

Answer 4

maybe you should just talk to her about it

no one can really tell you but her.  

Answer 5

how old are you? if youre still in high school or middle school then maybe shes doubting her sexual orientation. or shes embarrassed by it and is frustrated because she feels like shes diffferent than other people and doesnt want to be anymore. but if youre adults then you should talk and ask her. she might be finding herself thinking about someone else when you are sexually involved and feels guilty and confused about that, and wants to wait until its all you again until she goes any farther.  

Answer 6

Truth be told, she tires of the sexual activity and is just being polite and saying that she enjoys it.  Either try to mix it up a lot in the bedroom, or just deal with the fact that your relationship is about to end..

Answer 7

spice it up. you need an all nighter with lots and lots of aphrodisiacs. maybe u 2 should try watching a bit of p**n to get started with. and i know some good tricks with whipped cream and peanutbutter

Answer 8

maybe she was on her period or maybe you're right she's not attracted to you anymore. Have you tried seriously talking to her?

Answer 9

go to wikiafterdark.com they have all sorts of kinky stuff you can do to spice up your relationship