Well my best friend?

Question

idk everytime i talk 2 her lately she like doesnt car what i say or anything. Then i ask her if she wants 2 hang out and shes like ya i guess ill ask my mom and ill call u right back. Well she calls me at like really late at night and **** and forgets everythign i say. Then i thinks she also lyign 2 me when i ask if she wants 2 come over shes like well my mom said no which i understand and **** but every time. this just has started not that long ago she use 2 be liek here all the time and everythign is like so0o weird between us now. She was like my sister and everything. Its not like im annoying her i always tell her if u dont want 2 hang or somethign just tell me i dont care i rather u tell em that than lie 2 me. me and her have been through so much together and it seems liek everythign is changing. the worst part is about it is this saturday me and her are goin on vacation together and i realyl dotn think she wants 2 go but we cant change that noe everythign is booked.Any advice??

Answer 1

its great that you two have been such best friends and if you were as great friends as you said you were then she probably wouldnt want to loose you either. maybe theres something going on in her family thats been bothering her but she doesnt want to tell anyone about yet. since shes going on vacation with you saturday you'll have plenty of time for just the two of you so you can ask her about all of this and maybe you can work something out. no body wants to loose their best friend and im sure she doesnt either so good luck i hope everything works out =]

Answer 2

the two of you may be drifting apart, growing apart, growing up in general. sometimes the bestfriends you have one year disappear the next, it's completely normal. if you really want to know whats going on during this upcoming vacation just sit her down and ask her whats going on, tell her after everything you two have been thru it's not fair for her to leave you in the dark about it, and let her know that no matter what you'll always be there for her.

if that doesn't work maybe you just need to give it a break, don't call her or anything and eventually she'll come around.

Answer 3

well maybe shes going through something right now and doesnt want to do anything with anybody.Maybe your bff is depressed talk to her see whats going on and why she makes up excuses all the time now when you want to hang out tell her your her best friend she can tell you anything and that its good to get things out in the open. hopethis helps.

Answer 4

Same thing happened with me and my friend =(

I'm guessing she needed time alone, but to this day I'm still not sure of what really happened. People change, that's all I can say. Stop calling her and try to find someone else to hang out with for awhile. Give her time. Then when it comes closer to when you're going on vacation call her up and tell her that if she needed time alone that was fine with you but you really need to know if she's still up to going on vacation with you.

If she says no, invite someone else, remember, maybe her personality is changing, she might rather be at home doing nothing then be out having fun with her friends. It can happen, I've felt like that too. Another possibility is that something upsetting happened to her and she doesn't want to talk about it.

Answer 5

It could be that the two of you are just starting to go into different directions, nothings wrong with that you're just growing up and becoming different people. Either talk to her, or just wait for her to realize what's happening but I wouldn't recommend waiting for that, meet some new people and make some new friends and you might see that your new life with your new friends might be better.

Answer 6

Maybe she's smarter than you and is embarrassed by your horrible grammar.

Answer 7

you guys are drifting apart, and sadly I think she wants to drift apart.  You can try and fix it, but there's no guarantee that she'll want to be the way you guys were.  I had a best friend that was like a sister, but we were drifting apart, and we had to go to a concert together in Oakland.  We were fine but things weren't how they used to be.  After that concert, we didn't talk.  Eventually, we just stopped being friends and I found another one.  It's gonna be hard, but you need to find another friend.

Answer 8

Maybe because you can't spell a thing :)

Answer 9

yeah, like, uh, get a nu friend or sumthin'.

Answer 10

probly she is a person who does not like to go any where but we are going thrue stages were things to us are boring are we dont feel like doing anything at all.

i hope everything goes all right best wishes to you

Answer 11

ya i had that same problem. i was good friends with this one girl then id call her up and shed be acting all weird. Just lay low for a while and chill and just leave her alone for a couple days or weeks if u have to then hope that it doesnt happen anymore. It worked for me, so good luck