Well why is s*x soooooo a must in a relationship before marriage?

Question

Well why is s*x soooooo a must in a relationship before marriage?

Answer 1

In our world today, s*x is a big part of our culture, on tv and movies, and music, which is wasn't so much, a long time ago, so its all around us, and it seems like the norm. But its ONLY a must in your relations, if you chose to do so, if you say no, then thats that.  

Answer 2

Probably because it is one of the main ingredient into a healthy/complete relationship. It may be somehow replaced by understanding and deep (with all of your heart, no hidings) sincere communication - after all a Relationship means shearing on all levels which is not possible without communication from both sides.

What if you together aren't physically compatible ??? He shall hurt her any time he gets into her - she'll become frigid. Or what if he is too little for her to feel any of the trepidations of the little sweet one in there? Huffffffff. All is in the finale communication, but it shall be a some more complicated relationship than a normal one.

What good all of the rest you can share? There shall be a lot of frustration within the time to accumulate within you two, especially if you do not communicate your needs & feelings which are all the LOVE's means - to communicate, to try to be in symbiosis with your partner, to feel the way they are feeling. Yeah, it may work into an end, but it's up to both of them.

So, this has not to be the First ISSUE to be resolved. If there is not much else, a perfect s*x compatibility is ZERO, at least THIS IS my formula ! s*x is The LAST one on the list, BUT it is important as well :)

Answer 3

life is not about that only.

if someone gets married is because they love each other.. doesnt matter if its really bad.

Answer 4

To see what you are getting yourself in to

Answer 5

i guess some people would liek to know if they like the s*x before thats the only person u can have s*x with the rest of ur life  and no one really buts to much thought into the sec before marriage thing,

Answer 6

it is not a  "MUST" but some lovers will end up having s*x before marriage because of the flow.

*when you are so in love with a guy and dated him all the way, if he tries to touch you, can you resist it? s*x before marriage is a matter of self-control only. if you can control yourself even if you are so aroused, then you won't make love with him yet before to get married.

Answer 7

ITS NOT ALWAYS UNTIL YOU ARE IN CONTROL...... ONCE YOU HAVE MADE UP YOUR MIND TO NOT TO BREACH THE LIMITS..



STAY WITH IT'

Answer 8

us guys need to know if "its good" before we consider marriage. or even if were not taking it that far. s*x isnt the ultimate goal. but lets be honest s*x feels great. and its good way to show affection, and keep a relationship strong. i mean why not?

Answer 9

what if the s*x sux? who will be looking for a new partner first?

Answer 10

It's not important to me before marriage.

It's your opinion: do what you wanna do.

Answer 11

i dont think it is a must unless you make it one!

but most people feel compelled to have s*x with someone  because they believe the intimacy of being together.. a part of each other, a great feeling.. other have urges... its all upto your and your partners views on the whole situation..

Answer 12

It's not. I don't know who told you it is, but you've been lied to.

Answer 13

it doesnt have to be its up to you!