Well you see...I was caught by my teen-aged son, masturbating.

Question

He just walked right into my bedroom!!!! I don't know how to deal with this! I saw the look on his face and cant even imagine the look he saw on my face. It seems this is more difficult to explain than, lets say, him walking in on My husband and myself "doing our thing". I just screamed at him to get out! Now he has come back home, neither has mentioned it, and I'm not sure if I should, and try to explain, or just let it go like it never happened. Called hubby at work to tell him and he said "you're on your own with this one!" Please if anyone has suggestions i would greatly appreciate any advice.

Answer 1

don't worry about it...he probably does the SAME exact thing

Answer 2

What is there to explain?  This is what teen-aged guys do isn't it?

Answer 3

He probably does the same exact thing. Don't worry about it...because I know I do it. Lmao. Just let slide unless he brings it up.

Answer 4

It's good to lock your door. It will fade, I'm sure he understands, hes just taking his time to process it.  

Answer 5

it's perfectly normal for teen age kids to walk in on people.

when i was little i walked in on my dad and his girlfriend, and we just let it slide by like it never happened.

just wait for him to bring it up.

Answer 6

well how old is he? I'm sure he knows its normal for people to do.

you have two choice you can wait for him to bring it up or you can talk to him about it and maybe explain to him he shouldn't just come in without knocking  

Answer 7

I would be more worried about why he walked right into your room without knocking? Did he hear you, and wanted to know what you were doing? Or, did he want to SEE what you were doing? He is a teenager. Teenage boys are funny people.

That would have me more worried than me just getting caught.  

Answer 8

For both your sakes, don't mention it. He's already embarrassed enough no doubt, and I'm sure you are too. Their is no need to prolong this.

If you try and talk to him about it all he'll do is get very uncomfortable and it would be really awkward. Just leave it and soon enough neither of you will think too much about it.

He probably doesn't want to think about it AT ALL, so by you talking to him about it, it will just worsen things.

Good luck!

:)

Answer 9

well i'm sire he knows what you were doing, since he IS a teenager.

Don't metion anything to him.

it might make him feel awkward.

Answer 10

I think he knows what you were doing.

he's a teenager.

Just let it go.

No matter what you do, he's scarred for life.

Answer 11

Haha.... ~xoxo ally*

Answer 12

since he's a teenager im sure hes all too familiar with masturbation, lol. hes probably just more embarrassed that he caught you in the act rather than the masturbation itself. (im sorry but this is hilarious) if you talk about it youll probably just embarrass him further. i would try and make light of the situation- make a joke out of it like haha dont come in mom and dads room without knocking, or something like that. sitting him down for a serious conversation is just gonna be uncomfortable for the both of you. good luck, and next time- lock the door!!!!

Answer 13

Chances are he wants to forget it as much as you do. If you feel the need to do it again then lock the door.

Answer 14

i think he knows masturbating is normal... b ut i think to just leav eit be and ... it will eventually  be over with ... just act like nothing happen ..wow thats real embarassing LOCK THE DOOR next time

Answer 15

even if thats what most of them do

they don't do it in their moms' rooms...

Answer 16

Go into his room when he is alone. Close the door behind you, and sit down on the bed. Start by saying "Let's talk about what you saw me doing." And then let him lead the conversation. But let him know that there is nothing wrong with masturbation, for anyone. Ask him if he does, and the two of you will have a new understanding, and something in common!

Answer 17

If there are no locks on the doors in your house, for Gods sake at least cover up! Better yet, why don't you just wait until he's asleep or goes somewhere???  

Answer 18

if this was one of my kids i would go about it in one of two ways.

1. i could laugh about it and say something like "can you see, are you blind" just laugh it up.

2. act like it never happened.

i think if you try to explain it you will cause more embarrassment. my brother walked in on my parents when we were teens. we all just laughed it up. he threw himself on the floor, grabbed his eyes, and started screaming "i am blind my eyes my eyes!"

next time LOCK THE DOOR!!

Answer 19

well you dont have to go in detail with him but just make sure that he just cant walk in without knocking. Iam sure he does it too and would like to be alone when he does. He would expect some privacy from you so he has to respect yours too!!!

Dont make it a big problem. Its completely normal to m********e but I do understand you feel a bit embarrassed.

Let him knock next time before he comes in.

Answer 20

I would have to say it is better to talk about it then to ignore it because that is why so many teens are having s*x and masturbating because their parents never sat down with them and then thy get mad because they are pregnant... Explain to your son about it rather than ignoring it. Make a difference. I wish my parents would have talked to me about it.

Just to give you something to laugh at... My uncle was visiting us and my parents where in their room. I knocked and knocked and no answer. So I took the key and unlock their bedroom door... BIG mistake My mom was taking a shower but my dad was dead asleep and I saw the back of ma dad COMPLETELY naked and only socks on... not something i would EVEr want to see.