Went to a party and got really drunk. did something REALLY bad. what to do now?

Question

So i went to this party and fooled around with a guy, little did i know he was kind of "with" someone. i was completely drunk, like fully off my face. i dont even remember what he looked like!! what do i do now? she goes to my school, he doesnt. i cant seem to face going to school.. please help!!! - oh btw they both wanna kill me now!! :S

Answer 1

They're least of your problem now.

No one has told you to go see a doctor yet--so I will.

Make an appointment and get tests to rule out HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis and chancroid. There are also tests for herpes and warts, too.

And if you're late, get pregnancy test, too.

Answer 2

Don't worry, just go to school, you have nothing to be ashamed of. it takes two to tangle, so you was not in this by yourself. just be careful next time. if possible stop drinking especially at parties, you see what just had happen gotten out of control. but your were not in this alone. he needs to take some of the blame too. next time be smart and careful. you are bigger then that. so move on do something good in life. and focus on staying in school. god bless you.

Answer 3

my answer was seriously going to be exactly like wiseman/ guru's up there.

don't be a ho. there's nothing special about it. simple as that.

Answer 4

He is not worth it but if you have to do something about it then at least apologise to the girl and the fella too if you must.

He is as much at fault as anyone - he did not have to accept what what was strutted in front of him and if he cant remain faithful to the other girl then he is not the right one for her, but hey! - she is the one who needs to find that out for herself

Perhaps the other girl is taking it out on you because she is mad at him for his infidelity Do you have a school counsellor or even a chaplain who may act as an intermediary for you both so that the apology can be made on neutral grounds ?

Answer 5

tell the girl that she is definitely mad at the wrong person, along with the guy. he must have known you were smashed and still fooled around with you. but if that doesn't work, always use the buddy system, she won't fight you if she's outnumbered, haha.

Answer 6

why do they both want to kill u  

Answer 7

Whatever! its so not your fault. He was the one with the commitment, NOT YOU. don't take the blame for his actions, you were just having a good time while he was effin up his life and relationship.

Answer 8

hey , all you have to say and remember is that You are the one who is single so you didn't do anything wrong. He was the one who is taken so he is the one who ****** up. Not YOU.

YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG!!! So tell the girl to get angry at the right person which definitely is not you.

Answer 9

This problem could have been very easy to settle if it were between civil people. But I guess not. Your ultimate excuse was that you were drunk, You did something wrong, yes, but under a strong influence. You don't expect to know the guys whole life in one night especially if you were drunk. It seems logic that you should be excused from this. You were DRUNK that was the key word, you didn't know any better.

The BEST effective way is to apologize with great sympathy. Apologize face to face at best. Tell her that you were drunk and that you had no idea what was going on. It will be ok. Talk things threw. If shes too stubborn to even accept a decent apology then forget about her. You, after that case, are a better person.

Answer 10

You deserve what you got.  1. you don't get flat on your face drunk.

2. Don't flirt with anybody when drunk. 3. Lucky he is a nice guy, you might have been raped. 4. A massive accomplishment, getting drunk.

Do nothing, make your apologies, and never ever get yourself into the same circumstances.

Peace.

Answer 11

you must run from them or go to your friend house.