Went to the movies with 5 girls. (Im a 13 year old GUY) AND IM NOT g*y?

Question

Ok. to start it off, i went to the movies with 5 girls. im not really bragging because it wasnt that fun. but yea one of those 5 girls was the girl i liked. so yea... another one of the girls, i told her i liked the other girl... r u following? now. so yea i like her. (sucks cause shes moving) and i went to the movies with her... before we went in to the theatre, she turned around to me smiled (laughed) and said... ur so quiet (thats another thing... all of them think im soooo quiet... im really not all that quiet, but its just girls im quiet with.. they r so complicated... its hard to talk to them) so yea its pretty hard to talk to them. so later in the movie "the house bunny" i didnt pick the movie..she passed me her popcorn... i know passing popcorn isnt such a big deal but yea...it was was awesome because i didnt even think she would think avout giving me any popcorn.. cause im not the most confident guy in the world. i dont know why i posted this but i just wanna know... why the h**l is it so impossible to talk to a girl you like????

Answer 1

Hey! If I take out all the "so yea" and "but yea" I can acctually kinda make out what your saying..

Answer 2

It's probably a fear that she'll think you're not all that, but don't worry, you'll grow out of it, and so will she.

Kudos to you for braving the cooties and being an honorary chick for an evening.  

Answer 3

oh that is so cute! she gave you pop corn. Its this most amazing felling like you meet someone and feel like fresh batteries energized by one an other where you always on that persons mind 24/7... well she knew you like her and you know it. I am the same way.I know how you feel. you want to know so much about them and just feel Just love struck and feel like they might not share those same feelings. You need to see that movie shes the man. You will get what I say after you see that. I get all giddy where i tend to blush and get goose bumps.  

Answer 4

I would be braggin' my buns off if I were you!  If she passed you her popcorn she's interested.  Try teasing her a bit.  Don't be mean about it, just have a little fun.  Go out with the five girls again and tell everyone you're with them all.  Then, when someone asks you about it, just say they're your harem.  They'll probably play along just to see other peoples' reactions...enjoy the moment.

Answer 5

its not impossible you just make yourself think that it is impossible. when its really not just imagine its a normal girl that you don't fancy and i am sure you will do just fine!

Answer 6

I know. i find it difficult to open my mouth and form words too. it can be just so crazily difficult! d**n if only my chem were that easy.

Answer 7

Because you can't think of anything to say and you don't want to say something silly. Most girls like talking about themselves and love it when a guy listens. Ask her questions, listen to what she says, she will ask you more question etc etc. Once you get to know her a bit more it will be easier to talk to her and you will feel more at ease.

Answer 8

Hey Jak,

I guess all I can say is RELAX  your 13 years old.  You are just learning about (or starting to) communication in a group setting.  This is a skill that will come easier as you age and mature.  Rest assured that there is nothing wrong with you of your style of communication.  This is a process we all develop as we grow.  Dont be afraid or feel like you are going to embarrass yourself.  We all go through this or have gone through this.  You will grow and maintain these abilities as you age.  And hey if you do end up embarrassing yourself, dont worry about it.  Chances are teenage girls are gonna think its cute.  Best of luck and don't worry so much.

Answer 9

because she gives you butterflies. its normal, don't be so hard on yourself. plus, practice makes perfect.