Were u adopted?

Question

I am a 16 year old junior pregnant with my boyfreinds baby. We love each other dearly, we are both happy that i am pregnant, but our families want us to give her up for adoption. I could take care of this baby. Both our families could support this baby, but i dont know if i could do i emotionally. If you were adopted tell me what u think about your birth parents? I want to know.

Answer 1

hi there i was adopted in 1981. I met my birth mother when i turned 19. I took a greyhound bus from alberta to british columbia 24 hr ride got off the bus at 2 am in some small town i have never been to all alone . she stood me up for 4hrs and there was no where to go except sit on a bench outside in the cold. The next thing she did was steal 150 dollars from me to go buy booze and drugs. Then she left me alone at her house for 6 days alone no food in the house no electricity nothing. After a few years i tried talking with her again but she is just worse than she was. she threatened to kill me in front of my son,she drove drunk and high. I will never EVER speak to her again its been 10 years .I wish i never met her she was 15 when she had me too and I think i have fetal alcohol a little maybe