Were you born on the Libra/Scorpio cusp....?

Question

What do you love? What do you hate? Do you get along with a lot of people ? Are you too sensitive? Dreamy Or realistic? Jealous? Aggressive? Artistic? Philosophical ? Introverted or extroverted? Loyal? Furious? Secretive?

Please talk about your personality....If you're not on this cusp, talk about people who are....

I'm on this cusp myslef (20-Oct)... I would love to know more about my fellows out there :)

Answer 1

 I had born on 27th October, but I consider myself into this cusp because famous Astrolger "Cherio" described me from this cusp, and also because very precise description of my personality by this cusp. For reference of Cherio Numerology see the link;-

http://mvpyimao.wordpress.com/2009/11/10/you-and-your-stars-louis-hamon-date-of-birth-and-destinyborn-in-november/

One of the reason I believe myself into this cusp is because I am Indian and I know that in numerology a month is considered starting from 10 days before from English Calendar, and that's because of Indian calendar in which month starts from 20 or 21th day of English calendar. Okay, lets go for what I say about myself, I hope you don't mind:-

Start from your first question

What do you love?

The foremost thing I love is my love and second thing I love is to love my love. After that I really love beauty in everything, especially women, because I am men. Moreover in the things which I use, wearable or not wearable. I love flower despite being man and flower stills my eyes very often. Another thing which I love and always surrounds me is music of all kind i.e. from very slow and calm like Enya-Only Time, to very fast and devilish like of Lamb of God. My favorite in music is Sade. And all of them whether women, men, wearables or decorative, or prideful to have, must be of top most placeholders in there respective category. One more thing to say is that I do not see ugliness in anything of them, I always find a beauty in everything. especially facial expression and way of talking and giving arguments by women and children. And all of these are honest opinion and nothing exaggerated, with a simple mindedness. 

move on to another question:-

What do you hate?

I hate illogicalness and confusing and misleading arguments. It leads my mind to imbalance and also sometimes crazy, but I love to see the facial expression when someone give innocent illogical response because of ignorance. Second thing which is most hateful with me is continuation of injustice through an act or logical shortcomings. And if injustice is mixed with forcefullness and suppression of speech then that is even more hateful and must be crushed at any cost. 

moving ahead.

Do you get along with lot of people?

No. I have very few specials friends and all of them live at about 100 miles away from me. To whom I meet much less and that also through the efforts done by them or me. Means there is very special efforts should be done to organize our meetings. I have only 3 friends near me. I get along with many people sometimes but I can say that they are not my special friends but are mates but I can do whatever is under best of my ability for them also. I am social but not very spotaneously extrovert with people.

Are you too sensitive?

I am sensitive only someone criticize me instead of my arguments. I am angry when somebody gives arguments supporting injustice to anybody, knowingly or unknowingly.

 

Dreamy or Realistic?

I think, first I am dreamy but then I want to make that dream come true by some ways. I think of how to make impossible dreams become possible and become realistic. When in the process of progress, I think I am realistic but when far from the real process, I think I am dreamy and generally dreams difficult or even impossible dreams.

Jealous?

I am yet to be in situation to be jealous. Once I remember that I had seen and felt somebody to be more attractive and seductive than me, in my youth actually. I am not seductive todays but certainly attractive if I appear continuously to somebody.

Aggressive?

I am not at all aggressive physically because I am not a body builder, though I have very healthy and perfect looking body. But I am aggressive sometimes but logically, with words and reasoning. Probably I am always aggressive with opinions and arguments but with very smooth and unnoticeable aggressiveness of sounds and tones. Means only through logic and not through emotions or sounds and tones of voice.

Artistic?

I don't know perfectly but probably I am. Probably I am artistic as appear to me but not as appear to others. To others I only appears logical and intellectually hard to indulge with as per my own opinion.

Philosophical?

Probably very philosophical. I have hypothesis of mind, consciousness, women, truth, time, natural laws, logic, society, religion, human nature, Government etc.

Introverted or Extroverted?

Both but more introverted. Both because I try to see my inner conscious to understand other one's inner self. So this is both introvert and extrovert. More introvert because I understand the emotional problem looking inside specially but also comparing it with others opinions and some great thoughts of greats, and real practices of people in real life.

Loyal?

Loyal by nature but not by passionate emotions (towards lover and sexuality). Much loyal towards friends, people, country etc.

Furious?

No not at all. I had been furious in my childhood where I had beaten my class mate and House keeper very brutally till the blood comes out. That time I am a child. I also beaten my father several times and once beaten broken stool on his back in my childhood because he use to shout all night long in drunked condition. After all I had thrown him out of our(my mother's actually) house because of which he drunked a lot but not get home made food and become weak, and died in few months. That I feels is because of me, but I also think that I am absolutely innocent in it and driven by childish outburst of emotion and I respect and love my father undoubtfully. I had also been attacked by other people but never been beaten because I am quite skilled in defence and also once ran away, but not fight back and been offensive because I take everything mindfully and the people attacked me is of gang mentality and I am alone. But no doubt they are going to get the retaliated in future, when the time will come, any time before my death. Nowadays I am very calm, balanced and of mindful attitude and find every body is in group unlike me, therefore I cannot do anything but just give opinion in aggressive logic and nothing else.

Secretive?

Okay I am secretive till I feel there is anykind of danger because of any kind of reason, from the people towards me, by letting them know about me completely or partially or what is required and absolutely essential to be known by them about me. But if and when I will feel that they will not be a danger to me and will appreciate me I will tell about myself and pull back the attitude of keeping myself secret.

All this is my honest opinion about me and may could be some exaggerated because I am somewhat drunked right now. All this is on the basis of observation and also on the basis of my friends opinion of me and people behaviors towards me. My friends generally ask me questions about their problems and I am appreciated by them for giving satisfactory answers. My philosophy forum friends over the internet probably feel jealous of me because they do not appreciate me even if I finish the topic with concluding oinion after which or even with some more opinion, that topic is closed. I am not successful in my life  till now but I am quite sure I am going to be very successful in future because of my ideas regarding different matters. I love people even after critical condition of being misunderstood and criticized by people. 

Answer 2

 hi i am also born on Oct. 22

and i am JUST like you infact i couldn't tell you how on point you were. I couldn't have explained myself better. Partly because the negative things you pointed out i am ashamed of and rather keep secret about but thanks for this one you are totally on point!

Answer 3

I was born on October 22. Female.

I feel from a mental aspect I appear to be very strong and logical. When really on the inside, I am hiding this person who just wants to be emotional and throw caution to the wind. I ALWAYS have a battle going on inside me between what my heart/emotions feel and what my head thinks is right.

I am very secretive. I only tell people things I think they should know. In relationships, I open up just enough so that my partner feels secure, and the rest I keep hidden with intensity.  Although i am secretive sometimes I find I get very frustrated with my partner if he can't just figure me out without me saying anything. (Which is an impossible standard to meet). And then once they do figure me out, I feel smothered. It's the struggle between my Libra and Scorpio tendencies.

I am very balanced between being introverted and extroverted. Which ever side I decide to show is based on the people I am around. Or can be based on if I feel I need to keep myself gaurded from certain people or situations.

I am can be aloof to people at times. I can be self centered, vain, very very indecisive. I can be empathetic and kind. I will help anybody that asks for help, as long as it doesn't affect my well being or peace of mind.

When in love I am afraid of my feelings and I will hide them forever. I find that the only man I have ever loved was one who was more senstive then myself, which required me to show those softer sides. He was patient with me and my difficulties with showing him how I felt.

I am playful, eccentric, and loud. I am also melacholy, quiet, and passive. I find I am balanced between opposites and what sides I show is dependant on the people I am around.

When I am interested in a man, I honeslty don't know how I react and treat them. I am flirtatious, but not over the top, I like to feel out the situations. Men that are forward with me, are nice because I know where they stand in the relationship, with that said, men that are too forward, are a huge turn off.

When it comes to my needs for a significant other I need somebody who can either lead or follow. Somebody that will allow me to be as independent as I need, but also will let me depend on them when I need. I need lots of physical attention. Whether it be s*x, a pat on the a*s, tracing there fingers lightly on my back, standing close, etc. I feel that physical attention is a good indicator of if somebody is interested or not.  I need somebody who is strong but can show sensitivity at times. I like to feel needed but not have needy over bearing partners. It's the little things that count with me. But if you read thisparagraph you will notice. I really honestly have no idea what I want of need, which is why a man who is perceptive to me is ideal.

Sexwise. It is a game of power. I like to have all the power or I like my partner to have all the power. If a man is going to lead in the bedroom, he has to be willing to give it his all, none of this half assed s**t! s*x is not only a physical thing, it is and intellectual thing. I need somebody who can keep my mind focused on him. Teasing me is one of the best ways to get me to be satisfied. The anticipation is what really gets me going. I like phone s*x, dirty talk, role playing, etc. Must be the scorpio in me. That said, I do not like casual s*x and will go without s*x for a long time. I have to be able to trust the person to be that vulnerable. Intimacy is not based specifically on s*x for me though. There are many ways to be intimate.

At times I will find myself in these lulls where I don't even want to get out of bed or leave the house. Alot of the time I have no idea why. Best thing for somebody to do, is let me have my space. If I need help or support I will usually reach out and define my needs. That said, I find that at times when i am struggling, I may need to just figure it out on my own. People should not take it personally when I decline there offers for help. It is merely a matter of me feeling misunderstood or being to lazy to try and explain the tornado that is going on in my mind.

I very much enjoy making people laugh. I am most likely usually in a joking mood, and it is difficult for people to upset me. When people upset me, I have a passionate temper, and itis best to either sit there and take it, then give me a few minutes to cool down, and then re-approach the situation. Or just leave me alone until I approach you.

This going to sound dramatic, which is another personality trait that I have, but I find it physically painful to be around weak minded people. Not necessarily intelligence is what matters, but people who cannot think for themselves very much bother me. I need to be surrounded by open minded people,

I over-analyzed and try to see both sides of EVERYTHING! I will also ask the same question 20 different ways, to see if I can get a different answer. I love to learn and love to challenge people or ideals.

I don't really know what else to say.

I hope this was helpful.