This happened to me in elementary school. At the time I didn't think much of it, because I lacked perspective. I did think EVERYONE else had "better" parents, because they resembled their parents and I really longed for the connection of looking like others and being understood. I felt like a round peg trying to live with squares.
When I met my real parents when I was 21, they were much younger than my aparents. I have no doubt they would have been MUCH easier to relate to growing up. And been similar in age to my peers parents.
It seems to me that if you want to put off adopting children till late in life, you certainly shouldn't take an infant. A great deal of my childhood was spent in the hospital with sickly (old) aparent. Don't young children deserve vital parents?
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