What's Going ON, he will not STOP!!?

Question

I was dating this guy for a while now. It was about 1 year then we moved in together, and everything was fine, great. We moved our relationship to sexual after a year, and opps became pregnant I was pregnant for 4 months and lost the baby, He wasn't there when it happened he was with another girl picking her up from work but he told me that he was only her friend and she's 19teen!!, 4 weeks after that he moved out, broke it off, and NOW will not stop calling me, coming by my house, he wants to know who I talk to at work, and make different comments about different stuff. I find out at work that he was cheating on me and asking out other girl ect... BUT I don't believe them at work so... that's what I been hearing. So what can I do, I told him ALOT of times that "broke it off" now let me alone, loose my number. What does he Want from me??

Answer 1

Wow, this guy is a douche bag.  You and the other girls are realizing this, and he doesn't want you to, so he's just trying to sweet talk his way back to everyone he can so you'll keep him around.    He has no right to be stalking you, though.  I'd tell him you're going to get a restraining order if he doesn't leave you alone.  Then you can put this guy in the past for good.  

Answer 2

When he calls your phone, don't answer.  And, did you know that phones have "Off" switches these days?  Amazing, I know!

When he comes by your house, leave the door locked and don't answer it.

You're taking a very simple matter and making it complicated.  My only other advice is, if you implement both of the above, and he somehow harrasses you in some other ways, get a restraining order.

Answer 3

Uhh he sounds like a real winner (Sarcasm)...

I say the next time he comes around say, LOOK, Loose my number and forget about me.. you had your chance and you blew it.. Thank you for showing me what a loser you are so I didnt waste any more of my life with you. Then say, I have already looked into getting a restraining order and I will get one if you contact me again.

That should send a good message.

*** PEople never seem to realize what they have until its gone.**