what's it like to grow up in a family that adopted you at birth?
let me explain the situation: my big cousin, who's 16, recently had her baby girl. she had an adoption all planned out, with legal papers written and the adoptive parents ready. the contract is that she'll stay in contact with the adoptive family of her daughter. they will send her pictures and letters about the baby, and she'll visit her daughter every so often, like once a year. they've already emailed a bunch of pictures of the baby, who's only like two weeks old, to her. my cousin's daughter will grow up being able to ask her birth mother any questions she wants about the adoption, and knowing who her birth mom and birth family are. i'll probably be able to visit the baby at one point or another too, since i'm family and me and my cousin have become like best friends during her pregnancy.
so how will this affect the baby and her relationships with her adoptive parents? adoptees, feel free to share your stories.
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