What's a good way to make friends?

Question

I don't have many friends now, the ones I do have are really busy. We hang out once in a while, but I really want a really close friend. (Like a best friend.) It's hard to find one, though. I'm 18, out of high school and not in college yet. I'm trying to find a job, but it's not going so well. I've tried looking on MySpace, craigslist, and other places online for a really good friend, but can't find one. I've tried going out to places and events locally, but never find anyone who's really interested in being my friend. (Examples of where I go: Clubs, raves, shopping malls, parks, stores, movies, etc.) I also don't have the money to really join any classes or activities like karate, photography, etc. to meet people. There's also no place in my area that simply just offers a place for people to become friends.

So, what's a good way for me to make friends locally?

Answer 1

Locally I think thats impossible but if you wanna friend to talk to you can add me to your Messanger list !

Answer 2

If you want to make friends, you first need to put yourself out there somehow. Friends don't come knocking on your door while you sit at home watching TV. If the people you're already around (e.g. at work or school) aren't friend material for whatever reasons, it's not the end of the world.

Once you've started spending time with potential friends, remember to do your part (i.e. initiating activities, remembering birthdays, asking how the other person is feeling) or else the friendship will become unbalanced and resentment is likely to arise.

Answer 3

Volunteer to help people less fortunate than you are and you'll probably find some pretty neat, friendly people.  And remember to smile and be upbeat.

Answer 4

Maybe there is something about yourself you need to change so others will want to be closer to you.  When you get a job or start college you are going to meet a lot of new people.  xox

Answer 5

Have Fun

Answer 6

the way i see it, best friends cant be made in an instant.

a relationship is something that is being built over time.

i don't think attending a single party of a club can fix you up with friends for life.

a good friend can be made in a place where you meet on a daily basis like a workplace or school.

I have 1 friend in my neighborhood since its a very quit and boring place, but ive made good friends in school and in the army. once ill go college I'm sure ill make some more good friends.

good luck!  

Answer 7

hey its good 4 doing friend.when u dng friend 1st u see the charecter of his.it is very importent of make friend.

Answer 8

Just be yourself and try to be a better person .. look inside your mind and see whats ur habits or interests and than go to clubs , gym , anythin and get to know ppl.. cafes also libaries.. anythin

and all the best..

Answer 9

U dont find friends anywhere in particular........U find them anywhere....and in the most unintentional manner!!!!when u meet people, u either click with them, and be friends or u don't..there should be mutual understanding , care and even a bit of chemistry for people to be friends....

U just be yourself & approach the person and if u gel with them, then thats the beginning of a good friendship!

Answer 10

I had this problem. Once you get a Job you will meet new people. And you will also have money and will be able to join a club, the mistake I made was 'putting all my eggs in one basket' I only hang out with people at work, and I only have 1 old school friend. Today I have joined a gym and already meet new people in a yoga class. (I LOVE YOGA) Find something you love too and you will make friends like that and you will already have something in common to talk about.

I have only just realised today that life is too short and don't just stick to one circle of friends, have a few here and there.I love my mates from work and would never give them up in 100 years! But it is always good to have a few friends outside of work. You are still so young as am I. still loads of time to do things and meet new people ;o) Good luck xx

Answer 11

Good friends are made without a decision, you suddenly feel this person that you've been knowing for a while is a good friend